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This Christmas Season this year is very hard.Family gatherings are wonderful but l feel my husband not being so much more.Seeing everyone makes it more real that Ron is not here.The tears are in my…Continue
Started by Denise Lavoie. Last reply by Linda Engberg Dec 24, 2018.
It's been almost a week since i lost my wife to lung disease. She's in my mind 24/7. I don't have anybody else to talk too. I was carred by emotional and physical abuse mostly in my childhood in…Continue
Started by Kyle McKay. Last reply by Corinne C. Rico Nov 12, 2018.
I lost my husband we were high school sweethearts we had plans and it was not suppose to be this way we had two kids together and I feel so lost and the pain i feel becuase of how much I miss him…Continue
Started by Nicole. Last reply by Fran Oct 19, 2018.
next month will be three years since I lost my husband and I'm failing miserably I am in serious debt I cant fix, I stay home because I have extreme difficulty leaving my house I don't know how to…Continue
Started by Pamela philipp. Last reply by Corinne C. Rico Oct 4, 2018.
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Tildyc I could have written your post.....we were so happy and had lived a simple life so now we could travel and do things we talked about...I just cant believe he is not here where he is supposed to be. I look around at some of his unfinished projects and have no clue what to do with it or so much of his other stuff....how am I supposed to do all this alone??
My husband died so suddenly i didnt even get to say goodbye...I will always regret that day and all the what ifs and why's....The grief group was good tonight but it puts me in a funk mentally. I think of all the things we had planned and wanted to do and now I am here alone. I too have things I can do but things I wont do alone. Staying busy and trying to not become a hermit. I signed up for a class at the local police station that should be really interesting and nothing hubby would have wanted to do. I am slowly going places alone that we went together but it is not easy. But I have to buy groceries and do errands and since we went everywhere together I cant avoid it...
Just so darn hard and sad...
My husband said that he was not afraid to die, but he was disappointed that he would not be able to do all the things he was planning on doing. I am not disappointed but pissed off that he cannot do all the things that he wanted to do. There are some things I can do, but there is some that I cannot.
Sounds like we're pretty much on our own. We will help each other cope and adjust.
I am unable to work because taking care of my daddy is a full time job. I already feel better though because now I don't feel quite so lonely.
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