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Lost my husband the father of my kids and bestfriend . 6 Replies

  I lost my husband we were high school sweethearts we had plans and it was not suppose to be this way we had two kids together and I feel so lost and the pain i feel becuase of how much I miss him…Continue

Started by Nicole. Last reply by Martha Washburn Sep 22, 2022.

Loss of spouse… 3 Replies

For 40+ years we were together…married 39 years….We were to celebrate our 40th anniversary…Nobody who hasn’t been married, and lost a spouse could possibly understand….even though he was into many…Continue

Started by Susan B. Last reply by Connie Sep 1, 2022.

Today is the anniversary of my wedding day 2 Replies

I got married on May 1, 1992 and lost my husband on June 30, 2017. My wedding day was the happiest day of my life and if I had one wish, it would be to go back and live that day over. It has been…Continue

Started by Carol Klotz. Last reply by Carol Klotz May 3, 2020.

Lost my light in the darkness 2 Replies

I lost my wife on the 25 of March after returning from my Dads funeral. She is everything to me. No matter how bad it got, no matter how much my PTSD drug me down, She has been my light in the…Continue

Started by Shane Hughes. Last reply by Shane Hughes Apr 16, 2020.

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Comment by Soleil's Momma on April 6, 2015 at 11:13pm

The wounds are fresh and the pain is real, it isn't about time as one of you said, it's about new ideas and possibilities that over time you will allow yourself to have. Hang in there, as everyone says, it does NOT get easier but your faith will grow and you will find comfort in your own way, I'm sorry for your loss

Comment by Soleil's Momma on April 6, 2015 at 11:10pm

Crazy...haven't been on this website for almost 2 years but for some reason I couldn't go to bed tonight until I 'checked in' to see who might need some words encouragement and I found you guys. I didn't lose my spouse, I lost my daughter over three years ago..It's late guys, you will not escape this, you have to create a new reality--and you will.

Comment by Tildyc on April 6, 2015 at 11:02pm
How do I escape this?
Comment by George H on April 6, 2015 at 10:58pm
I think your right I just don't care about anything
Comment by Tildyc on April 6, 2015 at 10:56pm
I guess this is what they mean when you're losing your will to live?
Comment by George H on April 6, 2015 at 10:54pm
How do I get it in my head that Mary is not coming back this just can't be real I feal myself slipping farther into the darkness and I just don't care
Comment by George H on April 6, 2015 at 10:26pm
Tildyc I just said I can't live like this I know how you feel
Comment by Tildyc on April 6, 2015 at 10:24pm
I just want out
Comment by Tildyc on April 6, 2015 at 9:53pm
George – Yep I've thought about the same thing. Just taking my last paycheck and buying a plane ticket in disappearing somewhere. To try and disappear just like Mark did. But I know that's not logical. And you're absolutely right there is no escaping this pain – no running away from it.
Comment by George H on April 6, 2015 at 9:37pm
Don't know what to do anymore I don't drive but I feel like filling a backpack and just walking away from here but I guess you can't run from yourself
 

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