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Traumatic, Sudden Loss
I have started this group for people who like myself have suddenly, tragically and traumatically lost a loved one.
My mom died 8 weeks ago (August 17, 2009) She had been sick but I did not know the true extent of her illness. Her doctor knew she did not have long and I went to each doctor visit and talked to him at the hospital and he never told me and I do not believe mom knew either. I am not sure.
I found my mom sitting up on her bed and I know I knew she was gone. I still am in deep shock and cry occasionally but only a minute or two. Then I am back to not feeling or feel numb.
My mom died 8 weeks ago (August 17, 2009) She had been sick but I did not know the true extent of her illness. Her doctor knew she did not have long and I went to each doctor visit and talked to him at the hospital and he never told me and I do not believe mom knew either. I am not sure.
I found my mom sitting up on her bed and I know I knew she was gone. I still am in deep shock and cry occasionally but only a minute or two. Then I am back to not feeling or feel numb.
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Loss of boyfriend due to motorcycle 3 Replies
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Hi. My name is Cristal. I lost the love of my life on July 2nd. He had leukemia and had no idea. I begged him to see a doctor in the months prior to his death but he would not do it. He also suffered…Continue
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My "Little Brother"
Hi Everyone, My name is Carlyn, and I live in the Ft. Lauderdale area. I joined this site because a very dear friend of mine was killed in a hit-and-run accident in May. My friend Rick, whom I called…Continue
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Comment by Michelle W on June 3, 2012 at 3:32am
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I went to my sons grave sight today...I was feeling ok before and heart broken when I left ... I just want him back..I went in his room to put the bear my daughter gave him for graduation and the tassel of a fellow classmate I'm sure it was 2012... And I was done everything is just there kids writing such thoughtful thing to my son and it's just wrong we never did anything wrong. How could this happen someone leave to go to a football game( a school event ) and never come home... I sure hope there is a heaven. For my son and I hope it didn't hurt... Every day is hard.. Sorry for the babble but I just can't except this. I stl hope they were wrong and he wil. Find his way. To me.. Hugs to all this had been a horrible bad/ long month...Michelle
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Comment by dream moon JO B on June 1, 2012 at 3:31pm
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i still miss my dad still hurting it dozent mater wot age you r it still hurts if yore parents reshet to a 100 u wood still want thm to be 200 even if you reache to 100 you wood still wont yore parents with u my cuzen who lost her dorter to brain canser misses her dorter evry day she told her family she wood do any fink to bring her bac to lif but feals hurt tht she cant her sister my other cuzen wud luv to bring bac her mam and dad to life and thy died over 20 yrs ago wen my dad died this yr there secend dad thy called him ther favert uncle he woz evry 1s best frend i fing evry 1 on hear wood luv to bring ther lost 1s bac to lif i no lifes not like tht even wen u lose a pet its like lozen a blood member of yore family a few yrs ago my poor nebor lost her husband thn the nxt day she lost her dog who died we tryed to be ther for her and now she is doing the sam for us her husband and my dad wer gud frens so i supoze thy r together up in heven i hop geting looket after but you cant help but miss thm i cry evry day for my dad even for sum of the people iv lost yrs ago i v dun a nuf to stop a drut
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Comment by Dick on May 29, 2012 at 3:51pm
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I got mad at Danny at the gravesite for leaving me so soon before his time.
Danny's video.
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I put flags on my father and uncle's grave on Sunday. They were both Veterans. The least I could do to honour them.
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i fond this pome my dad wood of likt do not stand at my grav and weep i am not ther i do not sleep i am a thuzend winds that blor i am the dimand tht glints in the snow i am the gentle autum rain i am the soft star shines at nite
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Comment by anna l. on May 28, 2012 at 2:29pm
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Cynthia you have nothing to be sorry for. This is the place to let all that anger and frustration out. Life is so unfair. You have every right to be angry with God for taking your son so soon after your brother. Im having a horrible day today too and I dont know why today Im such a mess but I am.Hugs from another mom without her son who understands how hard it is
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Comment by cynthia williams on May 28, 2012 at 10:29am
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Its been almost 3 months since my son was killed three days after I burried my brother. I am still hurt and now feeling bitter and alone. I know there's a God, I prayed to him about everything, but when my son and his friend was gunned down like a dog in the street I lost my faith. I thought ...no I really believed that when I prayed and asked God to protect my family.... he would. He didn't protect my brother, he didn't protect my son and now I have to pray and ask God to take away my pain. My son was killed 2 days before my birthday.. I would have given up my life for my son to never see that birthday. I'm so sorry members but i'm still hurting.
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I am too still worried about my lil sister - have been praying (never been religious) just to ask that she is well taken care of... I feel so bad she was alone when it happened...if sn was there she would have ben taken to hospital in time... keep playing the dreadful last hour in my head when she called friends to say she had a pain... never called me as i live in dif timezone abroad..i keep playing the scene and keep seeing her so beautiful before the burial.. i kept kissing her.. i can't believe she is gone.. I miss her physical being...she is my only soulmate....my life will always be drier and darker
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yes joei no how u feal mum feals the sam we miss his nebulozer mashine going 4 or 6 tims a day his oxging mashine going i no thy got took away but we can still hear my dads mashines going
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i no my dads gone but i still keep woing abot him is he ok up ther is he geting looked after up ther is he geting fed ok up ther dont no if its me bean silly or dose evry 1 feal the same i tell him that i luv him evry day to his foto on the wall
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