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Traumatic, Sudden Loss

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Traumatic, Sudden Loss

I have started this group for people who like myself have suddenly, tragically and traumatically lost a loved one.

My mom died 8 weeks ago (August 17, 2009) She had been sick but I did not know the true extent of her illness. Her doctor knew she did not have long and I went to each doctor visit and talked to him at the hospital and he never told me and I do not believe mom knew either. I am not sure.

I found my mom sitting up on her bed and I know I knew she was gone. I still am in deep shock and cry occasionally but only a minute or two. Then I am back to not feeling or feel numb.

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New to the Group

Hello All-I am a new widow as my husband passed away April 21, 2018 at the age of 49. He suffered a heart attack and had no previous history of any heart conditions nor does it run in his family.  I…Continue

Started by Danielle Wood Aug 2, 2018.

Struggling 2 Replies

Hi. My name is Cristal. I lost the love of my life on July 2nd. He had leukemia and had no idea. I begged him to see a doctor in the months prior to his death but he would not do it. He also suffered…Continue

Started by Cristal. Last reply by Cristal Aug 1, 2018.

My "Little Brother"

Hi Everyone, My name is Carlyn, and I live in the Ft. Lauderdale area. I joined this site because a very dear friend of mine was killed in a hit-and-run accident in May. My friend Rick, whom I called…Continue

Tags: violent, death, loss, sudden, friend

Started by Carlyn Jorgensen Aug 28, 2017.

A proof of love 13 Replies

I just have a simple question...Is a headstone proof of how much a person was loved?Continue

Started by Toni Jones. Last reply by Christine Jun 3, 2017.

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Comment by Theresa Wheeler on October 16, 2009 at 7:48am
My husband died from a sudden illness. He was only 55 years old. He was gone in 2 days. It's been 6 months and it is still so painful. He was my best friend. The hardest part is seeing my 12 year old child go through the pain of losing his father. Does it ever get easier?
Comment by donna henderson on October 15, 2009 at 12:27am
i had the same thing happen to me with my dad i came home one day found him sitting in the recliner i just had a weird feeling and i said dad dad nothing so i picked up his keys and i dropped them on the table still nothing. So i went over i felt his neck no pulse, i took off running and i went to the manager's suite called 911. there was nothing they could do he had been dead for a few days.
Comment by Mandi Shoopman on October 14, 2009 at 3:55pm
Seven months ago, my 21 year old cousin, who was like a brother to me, was killed in an accident. This is the most traumatic thing I have ever dealt with and is a daily struggle.
 

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