"i miss mom so mush i do"
Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Don't grieve alone; 14,000 members and growing
Traumatic loss of an only child
Information
I started this group so that people who have lost their only child or the only child that remained, as in my case, could come together because I believe people that did have a child or children who now have none have special issues.
Members: 36
Latest Activity: Dec 2, 2021
Discussion Forum
What to do after death of only child 1 Reply
My uncle has lost his only child. He died due to electric shock. He is just 18 yrs old and very brilliant smart handsome boy. He was academically very strong. My uncle and aunt are very very sad and…Continue
Started by Sachin Agarwalla. Last reply by Sanju Rao Dec 2, 2021.
In the blink of an eye......gone 3 Replies
I lost my only daughter and unborn grandson. They were killed on October 17, 2016. An 18 wheeler decided to do a u-turn on a rural county road, in the fog at 6am. My daughter never saw the trailer.…Continue
Started by Robin Nolen-Perez. Last reply by Lenny Feb 11, 2017.
Lost my daughter to an impaired driver 2 Replies
I lost my only child in 2010. The pain feels as bad today as it did then. It's as if no time has passed. It may as well have been yesterday. I try not to show my pain but I am such a radically…Continue
Started by Patty. Last reply by Patty Apr 24, 2016.
my beautiful only child, my son 6 Replies
hi my name is kim, I lost my son noe 5 , I was taking him to the doctors and he left me in my van, I screamed and screamed for him to not leave me, it was his heart he was only 40, I died that day…Continue
Started by kim. Last reply by Vicki Sep 18, 2014.
Comment Wall
Comment
-
Comment by kim on June 30, 2014 at 9:43am
-
please shawn help me through this, I cant do it anymore. my shattered heart cant go on. I miss you and love you so much, ill take your hand in a heart beat and go with you. please only you can take this unbearable pain away. without you there is no living, my baby I love you mom
-
Comment by Connie K on June 27, 2014 at 4:29pm
-
Sending everyone here love and payers today
-
-
thank you connie, I promise ill try,
-
-
Kim - I know it is so difficult to get those horrible memories out of your head. I'm sorry you are hurting so badly. Sometimes, not thinking about it almost seems like a betrayal. I had a hard time with this and remembering that night. The coroner coming. The horror of seeing a facebook post which told of a car accident but not who was okay. I couldn't see my son for 2 days because they took him to a morgue far from our house. But the fact is, for your own health you have to try to replace that memory with a positive one if you can. My counselor had me do this as an exercise. Just try to start thinking of a positive memory with your child. I know it sound impossible but going through this grief takes hard work, really. It's exhausting. When I am faced with this challenge and consciously change my thoughts, I eventually find that I am thinking of something happier and I know those negative things are not what my son would want me to dwell on. Hugs.
-
-
hi connie, I so understand where you are coming from, with my shawn its been almost 8 months. I know ill never move forward, I just cant. im so lost without him. my life feels over now. I wish I could remember the good times but I cant, just that awful last day, over and over again. please take care, love kim
-
-
It's just an especially hard time because of graduation etc. I lost my only child 18 months ago - It feels like yesterday. He was 17 and all we planned for him and ourselves is gone. I was his caretaker because he suffered from Crohn's Disease and was home schooled the last 2 years and still am not working because of a badly broken arm and I feel lost without him. I believe he is okay and his spirit lives. I just can't figure out how to move forward in this world without him. I try to live so he would be proud and do things to keep his memory alive in service to others. I just don't know what else to do. Sending everyone here love and prayers today.
-
-
7 months this week on the 5, I just want so bad to be with my son, I pray each night to go with him, I feel nothing any more , I so tired, and so lonely. its all like yesterday, the pain is so unreal. my tears never stop. I need my shawn so bad, I just cant go on.
-
Comment by Jacqueline Mckamey on April 27, 2014 at 1:33am
-
-
http://globalnews.ca/news/1045270/family-of-deceased-abbotsford-bab...
"This Is My Precious Angel. Please Watch The News Story About What Is Happening with her death.. ITs the Most traumatic Experience Its horrible Im still waiting for answers I feel stuck and lost I miss her so much she was my life, my world, my reason, My EVERYTHING.. she was in every plan I have for the future .. I just don't know what to do anymore it is getting harder everyday
-
Comment by amanda reese on January 19, 2014 at 10:43pm
-
im loosing my mind in all this grief and I don't know how to handle this pain. on janurary 12th of this yr 2014 it marked one yr since I loved my one and only beautiful babygirl Sophialynn. ive never felt a worse pain than this, and im not sure how to control this and im in need of some one who knows the pain to help me.
Groups
-
I miss my Mom!
751 members
-
LESBIAN ..GAY 2 SPIRITE…
15 members
-
Sibling Loss
9 members
-
Loss of a child In memor…
29 members
-
Too Young To Die
17 members
-
Losing a Sister
93 members
-
Multiple Losses Group
324 members
-
Grief Counseling
140 members
-
Zoom Grief Support
39 members
-
Orphaned Adults
80 members
-
Sole Survivors
15 members
-
Losing a sibling
62 members
-
Being the Other Woman/Ot…
43 members
-
Compounded grief with ex…
49 members
-
Lost both parents
12 members
Latest Activity
My husband
"Thanks, Rosie. (I have memory problems and forgot about this site. I'm just seeing this now. April 6th)"
LESBIAN ..GAY 2 SPIRITED loss and grief
Anyone who has lost their gay partner..soon finds that there may be a few things that are different...such as sorting through things and feeling like an intruder because it is also family stuff etcSee More
Assumptions
An assumption is an unexamined belief: what is thought to be true without ever really realizing that we think in that way. For better or worse, understanding starts with entertaining the idea that something is true. Truly profound thoughts generally come to light from the relaxation of these (flawed) assumptions. This is where I find myself today...Perhaps, one of the more significant drivers to pushing down the loss and grief at the time of the accident, ignoring it and mindlessly walking…See More
© 2024 Created by Ninja.
Powered by
You need to be a member of Traumatic loss of an only child to add comments!