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Multiple Losses Group

I am creating this site for the many of us who have suffered several losses. I lost my mom, dad, grandma(2nd mom), grandpa, my beloved dog and divorce. Many of us have lost more than one person or event. Come share!

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I've been here before 1 Reply

I just wanted to let everyone know that I've been here, on this website and in this group, before. My name was Pennywyze. I stopped coming to this site because I became busy with writing my first…Continue

Started by Penny Caywood. Last reply by dream moon JO B Jun 16, 2022.

So many losses 5 Replies

I am so depressed. I've had so many losses. My parents, my husband, many cats, now I've moved to an apartment that doesn't feel like a home. No friends, no family, no furniture. What I wouldn't do…Continue

Started by Carol Klotz. Last reply by Carol Klotz Nov 17, 2021.

Too many in a short time.

Hey everyone,  since May of 2020 I lost my birth mother with whom I had established a good relationship.  In June my stepmother who raised me passed away. July was a break. August they found my…Continue

Started by Nina M Helme Mar 21, 2021.

Lost dad an wife within a month. 2 Replies

On March 12 my last living hero passed away from lung cancer. He is the greatest man ive ever known. He loved us all unconditionally no matter our mistakes. He was always honest and to the point and…Continue

Started by Shane Hughes. Last reply by Penny Feb 7, 2021.

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Comment by Katie Grace on October 2, 2009 at 4:01pm
im glad to see that you are taking some space and allowing yourself to grieve in your own way...in time im sure it will be addressed when things aren't as raw and hopefully you two can work out your differences or at least work out a compromise so this doesn't continue to create a divide between the two of you. I know my family and I grieved in very different ways and at first we were somewhat disconnected, but now we are able to grow closer together...hope the same happens for you
Comment by Kate on September 26, 2009 at 11:26am
I love my dad
Comment by Kate on September 26, 2009 at 11:17am
losing both of my father figures is a unique loss to me and my sister only, within my family, my mother lost her soulmate (my stepfather) and an ex-husband, my step brothers and sisters lost their father but ,my sister and I lost our father - the man who raised us from birth for 20 years and our step father, the man who made my mother deeply happy.
Now my mum is alone and grieving her soulmate but not her ex husband- she told me 'i don't care about your father,'
Something i have heard her say in many different ways throughout my life

So my mother and I are seperated until one of us is strong enough to accept the grief of the other.
My mother continues to put down my father, my sister and myself even in grief.
I can't be around her, or anyone who has negative things to say about my father.
Comment by Kate on September 23, 2009 at 11:32pm
I lost my biological dad, my stepdad and my great Aunt all in January this year,
I'm still struggling to work through everything, it has been one of the most testing times in my life.
This support group is lovely though and very soothing - thanks to everyone xxx
Comment by Katie Grace on September 22, 2009 at 11:50am
im glad you are getting support here and hope you continue to look for support in order to get what you need. Finding a good balance between reaching out and finding time for yourself is important and Im glad to hear you are taking time out for yourself
Comment by Julie Dolsey-Weiss on September 15, 2009 at 7:44pm
Unfortunately I see that I am not alone and to tell the truth this is the most support I have received. Everybody has gone away. I am trying to take it a few minutes at a time.
Comment by Katie Grace on September 15, 2009 at 7:34pm
Im so sorry for all of your pain and losses. One thing I am familiar with is loss and grief. I hope you find comfort and know that you are not alone in your pain
Comment by Karen on September 8, 2009 at 9:18pm
i lost my uncle 10-18-08, my papaw 10-20-08, my nana 12-4-08 and my mother 6-8-09.....my grandparents help raise me and now they are gone AND my momma is gone....i feel so very lost....
Comment by Michelle Julian on September 7, 2009 at 4:25pm
I am so sad right now. I am grieving over the loss of my friend/roommate who I lost this past April in a car crash and I so much want to talk to someone about it and the person who I know I could have said anything to died over twelve years ago on me. I feel like all of the people who I need the most in my life get taken away from me.
Comment by Julie Dolsey-Weiss on September 6, 2009 at 11:02am
My love came over last night for a few hours. It was so nice seeing him and he is the light of my life without him I would not want to be here with all my loved ones gone! He also stopped by the night before with a pizza and soda, though he could not stay!

This weekend has been so hard I feel so lonely and feel like running away but I just moved in here. The pain comes in waves and at times I feel nothing.
 

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