Car accident and the a suicide

Hello. My name is sara. So on the 18th of feb at exactly 3pm my grandad passed away then at 3.02pm my nan died. They were involved in a massive car accident. And they were gone. That day change my life forever. Slowly i managed to get to a point where i wasnt so sad and in shock and angry anymore..i was just so sad they were gone. 5 years has passed. Then on the 14th of july 2017 my life again dramticly changed in a matter of hours. My brother went missing. He had mental health problems and needed help. My brother was found the next morning and he was gone. I dont know if i can cope with another trormatic event in my life. Help

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Permalink Reply by Nicholle on September 12, 2017 at 7:52pm
Oh, my Gosh Sara. I am sorry from the bottom of my everything. Car accidents are absutely awful and Suicide is so incredibly, desperately painful. I am so, so, so sorry.
Please, please be gentle with yourself. We are here to walk with through through this nightmare. You are not alone.
Nicki
Permalink Reply by Sara on September 12, 2017 at 8:00pm
Thank you.
Permalink Reply by Nicholle on September 12, 2017 at 8:05pm
Are your parents still on Earth? How old was your brother? There are others here who have dealt with similar situations. We are surviving these things together. A lot is asked of us when tragedy strikes.please keep holding on.
Permalink Reply by Sara on September 12, 2017 at 8:07pm
My parents are still here. My bro was 31 and was struggleing with mental health.
Permalink Reply by Joe von Anjou on August 15, 2020 at 2:39pm

My heart and thoughts are with you, Sara.

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