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Missing my Son  or  Daughter

For all of us that are suffering the loss a son or daughter.

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Comment by Connie K on May 17, 2017 at 3:55pm

Thanks Ammy <3

Comment by Ammy on May 17, 2017 at 12:47pm

Thinking of you all and ......

Comment by Ammy on May 17, 2017 at 12:36pm

Thinking of you David.  Pleased to read you all made it through Mother's day.  Holidays are always hard, but right now I know that every day is hard to get through.  

Comment by Ammy on May 17, 2017 at 12:28pm

Silke B, try not to feel guilty.  We really aren't in control of our emotions.  Especially in the beginning.  I still snap at my husband some days for no reason.  Just thankful that he doesn't take it personally anymore.  

I sometimes think about birth and death and how before it was a normal thing.  We all know that we are born and someday die, but now I feel like I've been born again into a different life and have to learn how to live all over again.  This is definitely a much harder one than the first, but day by day we somehow manage to keep going.

I hope your days become a little kinder, gentler, and bring you some peace.  Hugs.

Comment by David Blanco on May 17, 2017 at 7:50am
Just reflecting on the loss of my Carli. The happiest day for me in her life was holding her the day she entered this world. The saddest day in her life for me was holding her the day she left this world...I miss you my Carli
Comment by David Blanco on May 15, 2017 at 8:53am
My wife loved the card and little gift I gave her from Carli. I kept the message simple just as I knew Carli would write it. We all cried together then went to church, which is still hard for me. Carli played the violin in the choir, and her chair is empty with a single flower on it. It still feels so strange to go anywhere and she is missing. I still find myself wanting to buy her things. How I miss my Carli...
Comment by Silke B. on May 15, 2017 at 7:52am

I lost my son 4 month ago. my daughter came over  for mothers day, bringing me flowers and a card. I couldn't enjoy anything and I got mad at my husband for something stupid........then we all cried....today I feel guilty. I think of all of you, hugs. 

Comment by Lynn Williams on May 14, 2017 at 9:13pm
Love to all here this is such a hard day to get through every year. Our love for our children is forever. I pray we will see them again and never be asked to part again.
Comment by Dolly on May 14, 2017 at 6:34pm

we lost Brandon the thursday before mother's day in 2013 so Mother's Day from that point on has been a time of a sort of shock... but we just get through the day and the month best we can... what else can we do?

Comment by Patty on May 14, 2017 at 11:35am

I just wanted to say that all of you are in my heart every single day.  I know you truly "get it".  Nothing can ever stop us from being moms and dads.  Our children are more alive than ever and in unimaginable joy.   David, you have been on my mind since I read your first post.  All of us here know that you are in the greatest pain of your life.  In the darkest times remember that there is no doubt that you will see Carli again.  Love to you all.

“Yours is the light by which my spirit's born: - you are my sun, my moon, and all my stars.”

― E.E. Cummings

~ Love and miss you with all my heart, pretty girl ❤️

 

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