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The Holiday Season and my loss 1 Reply

This Christmas Season this year is very hard.Family gatherings are wonderful but l feel my husband not being so much more.Seeing everyone makes it more real that Ron is not here.The tears are in my…Continue

Started by Denise Lavoie. Last reply by Linda Engberg Dec 24, 2018.

Lost my wife 14 Replies

It's been almost a week since i lost my wife to lung disease. She's in my mind 24/7. I don't have anybody else to talk too. I was carred by emotional and physical abuse mostly in my childhood in…Continue

Started by Kyle McKay. Last reply by Corinne C. Rico Nov 12, 2018.

Lost my husband the father of my kids and bestfriend . 3 Replies

  I lost my husband we were high school sweethearts we had plans and it was not suppose to be this way we had two kids together and I feel so lost and the pain i feel becuase of how much I miss him…Continue

Started by Nicole. Last reply by Fran Oct 19, 2018.

FAILING 9 Replies

next month will be three years since I lost my husband and I'm failing miserably I am in serious debt I cant fix, I stay home because I have extreme difficulty leaving my house I don't know how to…Continue

Started by Pamela philipp. Last reply by Corinne C. Rico Oct 4, 2018.

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Comment by Monty on February 16, 2019 at 2:35am

some days it seems so hard..

my life seems to have become so disjointed and out of sync with the rest of the world that we live in

even when your father believes that its harder to lose a partner to divorce that to lose you partner to death.

I feel so cross and upset that i feel like i want to play heavy rock very loud to make other people aware of how much pain i feel every day.

i feel like telling the work to go FOXTROX OSCAR !!!

Comment by Linda Engberg on February 15, 2019 at 4:18am

Monty,

I m sure everyone on our forum had a very bad day. I just kept myself very busy all. Since I live in Florida and it is in the 70's I worked outside all day long. I feel Julian is with when I am outside. He knew I just loved the outdoors and I do find some peace. 

Comment by Monty on February 14, 2019 at 3:20pm

Hi All

i dont know why but this morning for no reason i got very sad and begain crying.

i had to pull over..

its not going to great day

Comment by Linda Engberg on February 14, 2019 at 2:38pm

Trina,

It is so true, my Julian and I celebrated everyday of our life together like you an Joseph. We were Blessed.

Comment by Trina Mamoon on February 14, 2019 at 11:50am
Linda, thank you for the post. The words ring very true.
Today is Valentine’s Day, but fortunately for me, Joseph and I didn’t always celebrate on this day. We didn’t feel that we had to show our love and devotion on a specific day of the calendar. We showed our love for each other everyday. But hearing everybody making plans for Valentine’s Day makes me a little sad.
Hope everyone has a good day today in spite of everything else going on.
Comment by Linda Engberg on February 14, 2019 at 5:31am

Comment by Linda Engberg on February 14, 2019 at 5:31am

Thanks everyone. I was upset that we couldn't share our posts, now I am fine. Thanks

Comment by Monty on February 13, 2019 at 3:37pm

also note that the last comment did not show in latest activity panel in the left hand side of the page

Comment by Monty on February 13, 2019 at 3:35pm

i just went to the privacy settings in my profile and changed the latest activity so that my activity doesn't automatically show up there

i could see no mention of twitter in any of the settings

Comment by Monty on February 13, 2019 at 3:25pm

did  a quick search for 

"No Idea Joe!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" and Twitter.
I didn't find anything
maybe that it has the ability to share via twitter.
and may not be shared by default.
maybe we should try and contact the sysadmin
 

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