Lost My Spouse...

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Has Not Happened 5 Replies

Hi, everyone,I have been going to a grief group since I felt I needed some direction to "get a life".The leader is a great guy and has some wisdom that for the moment I consider.  He told us that it…Continue

Started by Maxey. Last reply by Sharon Stolp on Tuesday.

In agony 10 Replies

I lost my wife 6 weeks ago and I'm in agony every day.  We've been together for 51 years, married for 48.  Met at age 16.  We were like one person.  We knew everything about each other.  No secrets,…Continue

Started by joe kelly. Last reply by joe kelly on Monday.

Lost my wife 4 Replies

It's been almost a week since i lost my wife to lung disease. She's in my mind 24/7. I don't have anybody else to talk too. I was carred by emotional and physical abuse mostly in my childhood in…Continue

Started by Kyle McKay. Last reply by Kyle McKay Feb 15.

Two loves die - Sudden Death worse for griever 3 Replies

7 wksago my live together 10 yrs love collapsed dead in one minute sudden cardiac.I cannot deal with the unfinished business I was working on with him who I love so eyes hurt so much from…Continue

Tags: endings, different, die, loves, Two

Started by CH. Last reply by Marjorie Willcox Feb 6.

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Comment by bluebird on February 20, 2018 at 1:15pm

Just offering a hug and sympathy.

Comment by Linda Engberg on February 20, 2018 at 1:12pm

Hi Bluebird,

What are you trying to let me know?


Comment by bluebird on February 20, 2018 at 11:01am


Comment by Marjorie Willcox on February 20, 2018 at 6:58am

Dear Linda I feel for you and me   I feel my life is over but I have to go on living

Comment by Linda Engberg on February 20, 2018 at 6:13am


I feel exactly like you and it has been five years, I wish God would take me. I live in misery everyday. 

Comment by L.O on February 19, 2018 at 2:28pm

Thank you marjorie, i worry about everything now especially when it involves my children x

Comment by Marjorie Willcox on February 19, 2018 at 12:10pm

I'm on mertazapine which I take mid makes me sleep all night but have no trouble waking up.

Comment by L.O on February 19, 2018 at 11:56am

Well been to drs again and they still cant find out why im having chest pains (in even had a heart scan) They put me on new meds mirtazapine but im afraid to take them as i heard its hard to wake up and having young children i need to be able to get up. I just don't know what to do, i cant sleep, eat or even think about tomorrow :(

Comment by Linda Engberg on February 14, 2018 at 6:13am

TTo My Husband Julian

Comment by W0lfman on February 14, 2018 at 12:49am

Well hello all I'm back from my trip it did help some went to the mountains. But home again where its SSDD


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Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Crystal, yes I agree the reality of what happened to my mom re-plays over and over in my mind. I myself will never get over losing my my so unexpectedly, I didn't get to say mom I love you, maybe I would have peace if I was there and holding…"
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Ginger replied to Helen Maez's discussion Crying in the Morning
"No,I think it might be the grieving process because the same happens to me and then I go about the day ,the tears start again and depending on what mood I'm in ,it will bother me that everyone can go about their day as normal and it seems that…"
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Crystal, it's a double edged sword. I can remember my mom when she was healthy. Even that makes me sad because it leads me to visualize what became of her. The reality of what happened always comes back to you. I don't believe that we will…"
Crystal K commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"It is my mom’s birthday to two days. She wouldve been 61. Been dreading this day everyday this past month. How can someone you knew and talked to everyday suddenly not be here the next? Then it seems like their whole life is reduced to their…"
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I am creating this site for the many of us who have suffered several losses. I lost my mom, dad, grandma(2nd mom), grandpa, my beloved dog and divorce.Many of us have lost more than one person or event.Come share!See More
Michelle H commented on Karen's group Missing my Son or Daughter
"Yesterday was the 5th anniversary of my son's sudden death. I can scarcely believe it's been that long. This is a hard journey."
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There are numerous individuals who find themselves in a situation where they have to plan a funeral for the very first time ever in their lives. As since they have never been asked to be part of a dreary event like this one, being unsure of what to…
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Marjorie Willcox commented on Marjorie Willcox's blog post Loss of my husband
"My goodness Maria how awful for you. That must have shaken you to the core. I can relate to the Siamese twins it was the same for us and I fear I'll never experience happiness again.i would settle for contentment but how can that be possible…"
Sharon Stolp replied to Maxey's discussion Has Not Happened in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Hello Maxie, Sharon here. I wasn't blessed with 55 years with my love, we had 46 years together, married at 18 years old. It is 2 years out for me and I miss him so much. I am still going through the days of not getting dressed, not going…"
Libbie H posted a status
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Libbie H posted a status
"My Life stopped the day JESUS took you home. I've tried to find joy. Happy 35th anniversary honey! Third one without you. Heartbroken!"
Billy Jo Colt commented on Ginger's blog post Can't let go
"Hi Ginger, your loss is so natural. Why should you let go? Don't let go. Keep your memories forever of her. You will never forget her no matter what happens. You are embarking on a journey of many emotions. Most come to terms with their loss.…"
Maxey replied to Maxey's discussion Has Not Happened in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Thanks, Joe.  I appreciate you describing your experience during your accident.  It gives me hope that there really is something after this life.  My greatest hope which keeps me going and half way sane is that we will be joined again…"
Alice Thompson replied to Maxey's discussion Has Not Happened in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi Maxey, Thanks for your honesty, and I feel the same. Personally, I hate it when people say it is our choice, to look forwards or back, etc, partly because that sounds like they are blaming the bereaved for feeling sad and missing their loves, and…"
Marjorie Willcox replied to Maxey's discussion Has Not Happened in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Dear Maxey, How I feel for you and can empathise so much.I ask myself that question How can we have been loved & cherished all those years and then be expected to move on within our lives. I too read inspirational stuff & have a psychiatric…"
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi Maxey, You don't need to shape up Maxey, because I know I never will."

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