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FAILING 2 Replies

next month will be three years since I lost my husband and I'm failing miserably I am in serious debt I cant fix, I stay home because I have extreme difficulty leaving my house I don't know how to…Continue

Started by Pamela philipp. Last reply by Monty yesterday.

My wife passed 5 days before christmas 7 Replies

Hi AllMy name is Monty and i have become single parent of two special needs boys when i lost my wife and life partner of 25 years, 5 days before Christmas.My wife had Myotonic Dystrophy and other the…Continue

Started by Monty. Last reply by Monty Jul 8.

loost my spouce 4 Replies

Lost my spouce a couple of weeks ago and now what do I do with the rest of my life after 55 years with the same person?Continue

Started by kathy. Last reply by ET May 28.

Healing 18 Replies

Hello,I've been reading the messages here and it's brought back memories of an earlier time in my grief. I feel for each of you. This loss is the most difficult of human struggles -- at least it has…Continue

Tags: joy, on, moving, healing

Started by Trevy Thomas. Last reply by Geraldine Brown May 28.

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Comment by Marjorie Willcox on February 20, 2018 at 6:58am

Dear Linda I feel for you and me   I feel my life is over but I have to go on living

Comment by Linda Engberg on February 20, 2018 at 6:13am

Bluebird,

I feel exactly like you and it has been five years, I wish God would take me. I live in misery everyday. 

Comment by L.O on February 19, 2018 at 2:28pm

Thank you marjorie, i worry about everything now especially when it involves my children x

Comment by Marjorie Willcox on February 19, 2018 at 12:10pm

I'm on mertazapine which I take mid evening.it makes me sleep all night but have no trouble waking up.

Comment by L.O on February 19, 2018 at 11:56am

Well been to drs again and they still cant find out why im having chest pains (in even had a heart scan) They put me on new meds mirtazapine but im afraid to take them as i heard its hard to wake up and having young children i need to be able to get up. I just don't know what to do, i cant sleep, eat or even think about tomorrow :(

Comment by Linda Engberg on February 14, 2018 at 6:13am

TTo My Husband Julian

Comment by W0lfman on February 14, 2018 at 12:49am

Well hello all I'm back from my trip it did help some went to the mountains. But home again where its SSDD

Comment by Nancy on February 4, 2018 at 11:37am

Surreal. Like a bad dream you can't believe is true..

Comment by L.O on February 4, 2018 at 11:18am

Same here, being in my house isn't the same even with little ones running about. Inside im screaming at those who ask if 'im OK' as the true answer is no I'll never be OK without my partner. He was and still is my everything i have to force myself out of bed in the mornings and do things as 'normal

Comment by Marjorie Willcox on February 4, 2018 at 11:16am

Exactly!

 

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