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next month will be three years since I lost my husband and I'm failing miserably I am in serious debt I cant fix, I stay home because I have extreme difficulty leaving my house I don't know how to move forward as people say, I cant get through a day without breaking down, I have been told its time to start living my life and I just want to scream WHAT LIFE!!!!!! I don't know what to do I'm just existing for my children and grandchildren other wise I would of gave up a long time ago and because I promised my husband I wouldn't give up it just keeps getting harder not easier time has not healed anything I'M A FAILURE
You are not a failure! You are a survivor. It's hard to continue a life that was balanced and enriched by a truly loved spouse. Just do what helps YOU go on.
Im sorry for your loss no matter how long ago it is.
i can only imagine the pain and emotions you are still going though.
for me it was taking care of the kids and finding one thing to achieve (no matter how small) helped a lot. it was as small as make nutritious dinner today.
I would not say your failing, as mentioned before your surviving, and its not easy.
i wish the best or you .