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Losing Someone to Cancer

This is for anyone who has lost somone to cancer. I lost my adopted Mom to breast cancer some years ago. She was everything I could have asked for. She loved me because I was just me. She also loved my family and children as if they were her own.

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I feel worse 2 and a half years on, than I ever did. 11 Replies

Started by Michael Thompson. Last reply by morgan May 12.

Give yourself time to heal

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Still lost and broken 2 Replies

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Comment by Julie Dolsey-Weiss on September 15, 2009 at 11:42pm
Thanks you are so kind. I guess I have endured alot but with kind people like i have met here and you, it really helps. One day at a time right.
Comment by Katie Grace on September 15, 2009 at 8:28pm
You have definately been through a lot so it is understandable why you are feeling so much pain...Im so sorry for all of your losses and hope the pain you are feeling starts to become a little more bearable
Comment by Julie Dolsey-Weiss on September 15, 2009 at 7:38pm
I lost my grandma to breast cancer, my grandpa to colon cancer and my sweet dad to colon in Feb 2005. It is a heartache that never heals. Does anybody feel like they are alone on this planet? I feel so lost without my family, they are all gone now. If I have to live the rest of my life with this sorrow, why bother? However, I believe all things happen for a reason and my loved ones are with God but still when the heart ache comes it is so..........deep!
Comment by Angela Beaver on September 10, 2009 at 7:25am
Thank you for your support. This pain is like a heart attack that never goes away
Comment by Katherine Ellis on September 9, 2009 at 11:29pm
Angela, I am so sorry for your loss. I do know what you are talking about. It's a phyical pain in your heart. But time does help, it's just that it takes a lot of time. You are in my prayers. God bless
Comment by Angela Beaver on September 6, 2009 at 7:28pm
My pain is new to me to. I have never felt this pain before and its hard to go on feeling it. People say time heals all. I dont really agree. I dont think i will ever be healed from this pain
Comment by Tracey Whitford on September 2, 2009 at 11:00pm
Cancer SUCKS!! I lost my mom 12/30/08, and the PAIN is so bad. I dont go a day without thinking of her. How in the world do people go on without their moms?? She was more then my mom, she was my best friend and I loved her so much. Im soo angry and I dont know how to get over my anger. I have never felt as sad as I do now. I had a stillborn son 3/30/99, that was HORRIBLE...I lost my dad 11/8/02, that was HORRIBLE....nothing compares to the void I feel now without mom.
Comment by Katherine Ellis on August 7, 2009 at 5:34pm
Debbie, I don't think that the pain ever goes away. It does lessen with time. Nine months isn't very long. People asked me how do you do? I think at first we are so numb we just go through the motions. But the numbness wears off after awhile and we are faced with grief, some of us alone. I'm glad you found this site. I hope it helps you in your grief. God Bless and ((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))
Comment by Debbie Lindley on July 24, 2009 at 4:48pm
It's been nine months since my mother died of cancer. Everyone keeps saying that time heals, but I think it's getting worse. Now that it's not busy it seems it has all hit me harder. I miss my parents so much it still really hurts.
Comment by Katherine Ellis on July 24, 2009 at 12:41am
As we get ready to move on to another month, I just wanted everyone to know that I am thinking of you all. Even though we may not be having the brightest of days, we are here and there is hope. Someday the sun will shine again. The birds will sing. Until then my thoughts and prayers are with you all. God Bless
 

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