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I miss my Mom!

If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....

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Comment by Julie Dolsey-Weiss on September 7, 2009 at 2:04am
How have you been coping? What do you do? The things I used to enjoy like tv do not bring me the joy i used to have. I am not enjoying my time alone! But most of the time I feel nothing but emptiness, am I crazy or uncaring? I am very anxious!
Comment by Angela Beaver on September 6, 2009 at 9:55pm
ya i cant sleep. It hard to focus
Comment by Julie Dolsey-Weiss on September 6, 2009 at 9:22pm
This site has been a life line for me along with my love. Do you feel restless unable to sleep no matter what you do?
Comment by Angela Beaver on September 6, 2009 at 7:26pm
Thank you. It is really hard. I seem to be doing alittle better today. Im so glad i found this site
Comment by Julie Dolsey-Weiss on September 6, 2009 at 10:50am
Dear Angela,

Dear I am so sorry for you and feel your pain. This weekend is my first holiday without mom. Currently I feel "nothing" but occasionally I cry and my heart hurts. She was the last of my family. I too miss her so much and want her back....Do not give up! Each persons pain is unique and some days or weeks all we do is feel pain and fear. Keep writing and keep talking you my dear are not alone!!
Comment by Angela Beaver on September 6, 2009 at 12:26am
i feel sick reading everything. i just want to be with her again
Comment by Angela Beaver on September 6, 2009 at 12:24am
I miss you so much mom, I dont want to go one without you
Comment by Julie Dolsey-Weiss on September 5, 2009 at 2:59pm
Hello!

My holiday without my mom. There was just her and I so we only hung around the house and watched TV and talked. Nobody is around now. The silence is so deafening!

Good news Bryan my ex stopped by with a Pizza and Pepsi for me. He was on his way out to dinner with his family, yes he invited me but I did not go.
Comment by Tracey Whitford on September 2, 2009 at 10:56pm
I miss my mom terribly. Mom passed away 12-30-08, i think i was in shock for a month or so...i held things together so well. I dont know if I was fooling myself thinking that she was gonna come back or what, I just know that I dont have good days anymore. I cant go very long at all before something reminds me of how lost I am without her. Im 36 and people may think this is crazy, but I dont care. My mom & I lived together my whole life. When I got married she moved with us. I have 3 kids that she ADORED and helped me with sooo much. My kids were so close to her and they have had a difficult time as well. I love them so much and I dont want them to have an angry depressed mom, but I dont know how to get past this. I just miss mom so much. She had cancer. She was diagnosed 3/1/06, on my sons 3rd birthday and she fought so hard. She wasnt ready to die..even when hospice was here and we all told her it was ok to go she smiled at us and said she was gonna beat it. She said she would never leave us. Im just sooo lost.
Comment by renee on August 30, 2009 at 9:38pm
My Mom passed away 3 weeks ago. It was very sudden and I was with her when it happened. I live with her and now I miss her so much. She was my Mom, my best friend, my roommate and my companion.
 

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"Amen Linda.......Today for whatever reason was a particularly rough day.  I am exhausted from crying.   I just don't know how long I can keep pushing forward.  I am definitely in the hate mode......."
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Martee replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"Maybe open yourself up, try to ride that love and passion I see in you. You loved your husband so deeply, focus on that. Maybe we are still here because we need to evolve a bit more or do something that God wants us to do. looking back I feel you…"
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Martee replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"Exactly If We are wrong we won’t know it, but we do know that we are energy (souls), basic physics says energy cannot be destroyed. Anything is better than existing here in this void!"
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Martee replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"If you focus on the light and the good, that’s is God! I have felt it, I don’t know anything about plans or why people get taken before others but I do know that wherever that next realm  is I’m ready to go I am not…"
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bluebird replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"That's great that you have no doubt about the existence of an afterlife. I doubt there's a god, but if there is one I'm not convinced it's a loving God, as it allowed my husband to die young(-ish) and one week after our wedding.…"
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Jeff C replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"Morgan, Over the years I have thought that Bluebird gets it much more than almost everyone who has written about this - at least from my point of view. At the root of this, I think, it's the absence of their presence that hurts so much.  I…"
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Martee replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"bluebird I can’t help but hold out hope in reading all these entries from people that some of them made it to the next realm. That is the reason we don’t hear from some anymore, because they passed on with with their loved ones.  I…"
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bluebird replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"Thank you, Joe. It does help a little bit."
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morgan replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"Jeff,  Amazing isn't it?  I keep asking myself how it is I could still hurt so much from having my husband no longer with me on this earthly plane.  Not because I don't know it isn't possible but more, what is it that…"
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Joe Kelly replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"Bluebird, I believe that every consciousness/spirit/soul is immortal.  I, or no one in our limited dimensional world can prove that right or wrong.  I can't prove my OBE either.  All I can do is share it.  Your original post…"
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bluebird replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"Joe, Thank you. I hope with everything in my soul that you are right about that, and I wish I shared your faith in that regard. If you and I have already discussed this, I apologise for repeating myself (my memory is not what it once was, and my…"
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bluebird left a comment for Martee
"I saw both of your posts on my profile. If nothing else, maybe rock-climbing and the like will help to distract you for a little while. And you're right, it is absolutely not fair that our beloved partners have died. I know that my husband and…"
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M Adams replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"Hope these rituals bring comfort to you, Martee.  I have kept the ashes of my husband as well, just don’t want to part with them.  It has been more than three years since his death — but I don’t feel like there is a…"
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Joe Kelly replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"Reading your posts, and many who post here, I think you're going to be joyously surprised when you pass over. "The worst thing about all of this is not knowing if my sweet, wonderful husband's soul still exists, as it…"
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Martee left a comment for Marjorie Willcox
"So sorry for your loss and pain, my soulmate died 1/29/20, been so bad for me to. I don’t let people know too much, no way I want to be taken out of my house. I feel like some people just want to watch me crash and are more nosey than…"
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bluebird replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"Joe, Thank you for your posts. Even though you don't have absolute proof of an afterlife, your out-of-body experience seems to have provided you with some level of surety, which I think is wonderful, and I must admit I'm jealous of you for…"
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Joe Kelly replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"Bluebird, It doesn't make it easier so to speak.  What will help is when I allow my doctor to do some imaging, in the weeks or perhaps a couple of months ahead, I'll let him scan me, and since now I know something is spreading…"
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Josephine Crawford commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter
"Thanks Ammy. I sometimes feel guilty when I am happy. Yes it takes time. Continued to all."
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Martee replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"I kept my husband’s ashes, I keep them next to me all day, move them to his nightstand at night. Been 3 weeks..."
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