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I miss my Mom!

If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....

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Comment by Julie Dolsey-Weiss on September 7, 2009 at 10:12pm
I have only been here about a week and I tell you I do not get this kind of support except from my love, Bryan. He lives with his mom so I am alone and I do not enjoy it. I miss my mom so.............I am here for you too. Anybody wanting to talk I am here.
Comment by Angela Beaver on September 7, 2009 at 10:01pm
If there is anything i can do or say to help im here, i feel your pain as im going through it to. Please just keep coming to this site. I have only been on here for a few days but it is already helping me.
Comment by Julie Dolsey-Weiss on September 7, 2009 at 9:53pm
Angela,
Thank you for such kind words. At least I do not feel disloyal cause I feel numb/shock right now. Mom was a wonderful person who suffered so much. She would want me to be happy and I want to be. So I am going to live my life as much and fully as possible.
Comment by Angela Beaver on September 7, 2009 at 9:52pm
I really dont enjoy anything anymore. Its a fight to get out of bed, a fight to sleep, a fight to put any kind of effort into any relationship. I feel like im losing it all.
Comment by Angela Beaver on September 7, 2009 at 9:51pm
Julie
I have been numb for 5 months, now the deep pain has set in. Now i fight every day just to keep my self alive. The pain is overwelming, and i dont know if it gets better. I know what you mean about annv. Every month around the 15th i feel even more alone. Im really sorry to hear about your mom, Just remember we are all here for you.
Comment by Julie Dolsey-Weiss on September 7, 2009 at 8:04pm
Anybody did you feel numb or stunned or in shock? Is it normal to feel this way and for how long? Today it is 3 weeks since mom died. I just realized a couple of hours ago that it was Monday and I was dreading Monday, now I realize why.
Comment by Julie Dolsey-Weiss on September 7, 2009 at 8:02pm
Michelle my heart truly goes out to you. I was lucky to have my mom for 46 years and we had 3.5 years of living together and I took care of her needs. There were times when I wanted my own place and felt overwhelmed but Never like this. We talked alot everyday and she was the first person I called when My dad died, they were divorced. She helped me go through college and I will graduate and she will not be here. I too wish she were here and I miss talking to her....You will miss your mom always and me I am in the shocked stage. Today it is 3 weeks!
Comment by Michelle Julian on September 7, 2009 at 7:44pm
I lost my mom 12 years ago and there is not a day that I don't miss her or wish she was here. Some days I wonder what my life would have been like if she didn't die. Would I be the same person that I am today? But because of what happened I know that one day I will be able to help others whom have gone through losses like mine, and that alone I know would make her so very proud of me. I wish that she was here with me now. There is so much that I want to talk to her about. :'(
Comment by Julie Dolsey-Weiss on September 7, 2009 at 2:04am
How have you been coping? What do you do? The things I used to enjoy like tv do not bring me the joy i used to have. I am not enjoying my time alone! But most of the time I feel nothing but emptiness, am I crazy or uncaring? I am very anxious!
Comment by Angela Beaver on September 6, 2009 at 9:55pm
ya i cant sleep. It hard to focus
 

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"Amy, I am so sorry for your loss. The journey of caregiving is extremely difficult. The loss of our especially loved dear ones is unspeakable. There are so many different ideas about what happens to us when we die. Religion teaches many different…"
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Sue Toler commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I just feel like I am in a fog.  I have a little dog that is at least ten years old.  She adored my Mom & she has really grieved for her.  I know how you feel about your dog.  I worry about her.  She is all I have. …"
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Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Me too Brett, I sit here an look at my 12 year old Labrador and I know he is on borrowed time, and my heart breaks, losing him will be something that I am not looking forward to. As you said Brett, we have the live our lives until we are called…"
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Yes, I was looking at something that popped up on my Yahoo news feed. It was an article naming 106 celebrities who have passed away in 2019. So many names and faces that I remembered. Now they are gone, and they aren't coming back. Their time…"
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Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett so true she was my security blanket I feel like I have no one to lean on that understood me like her You know what keeps coming in my mind. How true it is and scary that everything has a beginning and an end."
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Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I hear it all the time you don’t know how lucky you were that your mother wasn’t sick and you didn’t have to take care of her I say to them lucky I was lucky that my mother died and I was not right by her side to tell her I love…"
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"M, the problem is that our security blankets were ripped away. Like you, sometimes I am glad to be sad. I feel like I am closer to my mom when I am crying. At least, her memory is fresher with me when I am in that zone. I feel like the hard reality…"
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Theresa, millions, billions of people have lost their moms. Sometimes someone will tell me that they have lost their mom, too, but they were able to deal with it, and they wonder why I haven't dealt with it as well. This may sound like an…"
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M Adams commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Me too ...I was sitting marking a paper yesterday and suddenly realized that I can’t see or talk to my mother about this or anything else and the tears came.  But I’m glad to think of her, in a way I can be glad to be sad sometimes.…"
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Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I sometimes will just be sitting down and I start to cry because I keep thinking I miss my mom so much my whole world is just not the same I think that I’ve become a different person it will be four years and I still cry I can’t put into…"
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M Adams commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Definitely a colder world now.  I like the image of the security blanket — like, as we go forward, we will always keep it but eventually may be able to wash it, fold it nicely, and put it in some place of honour close at hand but without…"
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"The world just became a colder place when my mom died. I just remember feeling like all was right with the world when my mom was in the next room. "
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Sue Toler commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"It is such a traumatic event, especially when you have had a wonderful Mom.  It is so hard knowing she is gone.  Knowing this is permanent.  There is no one that can fill the void she left.  My brother was close to Mom, but he…"
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Amy replied to Amy's discussion How do I get unstuck?
"I am not a believer and nor was he. We covered the bases just incase though. We were both raised Catholic. That is all besides the point though. "
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"While I never forget that my mom is gone, for some reason it just hits me over the head sometimes. Just out of the blue I'll be like, "Mom is gone." It's horrible. It's ever present. And the thing is that it is always with…"
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