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I miss my Mom!

If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....

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Comment by Sue Lavery on July 9, 2010 at 7:23pm
Eve I too feel like I'm to blame. I was there everyday and fighting every day and I was getting tired of fighting but my family wouldn't help me fight. My Mom too was my rock and she was such a special person that even people who only knew her a little said that she had something about her that drew them too her. If I could only be half the person she was I would be happy.
Comment by Sue Lavery on July 9, 2010 at 7:21pm
I miss my Mom so much. I was her caregiver even though she was in a nursing home. I was there every day but went away on a holiday and she passed and my sisters had her funeral without me. I did okay while I was away but I'm finding more and more I get very teary eyed just because. i really miss my Mom but my family really have moved on. Just like she said they were there for the money. She always said she felt they were waiting for her to die to get her money. I just wish I could tell her once more how much I love her
Comment by Eve Gerlando on July 8, 2010 at 3:02pm
I am Laura Marshall's older sister and I am the one who took care of our mom. She was my rock, my lifeline and now she is gone due to the incompetency of her primary care dr. I just received all of our mom's medical records and this dr didn't do her job and has cost us to lose our mom. She was my best friend. I dedicated my entire life to taking care of her and I feel like I failed her. Every thought I consume is of her. I can't even explain how much I miss her. The tears flow continuously and I can't apologize enough to my sisters. My mom was a strong Italian woman who no one told her what to do. Finally, 3 weeks ago I was able to convince her to go to my dr. who took the time and within one business day was able to diagnose her but it was too late. I don't know how I am going to go on without her. I am also disabled and can't work but I swear I am dedicating the rest of my life to make sure no one else has to go through this. This morning I heard my mom call my name and I sat straight up only to cry more because she is not here. I miss and love you mom!!!
Comment by Dana LaPaglia on July 7, 2010 at 11:56pm
Laura I wish I had the words to help you! but I dont my Mom died 3+6+09 my Dad 4+19+09 and I still miss them, this site helps its the only place that I can talk about all my feelings, my Mom was is my best friend everyday is a struggle knowing they are in Heaven gets me through. my Prayers are with you.Dana.
Comment by Laura Marshall on July 7, 2010 at 8:34pm
My sisters and I lost our mother 2 weeks ago. I never could of imagined the pain and actually hurt her dying has caused us. There are times when I think that my tears will not stop. We didn't even know she was so sick. She has been losing weight for over a year, but her doctor said she would monitor it. 3 weeks ago, she was feeling under the weather. My sister took her to see another doctor who ran test and 4 days later we were told she had cancer on liver. There were 4 tumors... that was Tuesday, she was ok, talking and being herself. By Thursday she was in ICU and in and out of a coma. We took her home on Saturday with Hospice. They said she would never make it through the night. She made it until Tuesday morning at 4am, when she left us. I miss her every second of every day. She was both our mother and father. She helped me raise my 2 beautiful children, who miss her beyond words. Will I ever be able to make it through one day?
Comment by Crystal B on July 6, 2010 at 10:41am
My mom passed away from complications of cancer and lupus on June 28, 2010. I feel so lost. My mom was my best friend and I just can't believe she won't be around anymore. I talked to her on the phone almost every day. What do I do now? My 2 year old won't even remember what a wonderful grammy she had. My mom loved her SO much and was so excited to have a grandchild close. I just want to understand why my mom was taken from me. She was only 55. It's not fair. I want to know she is in Heaven and happy and in no more pain. My mom suffered a lot on this earth. I don't get how such a kind, wonderful, caring person would have to suffer so much. It's just not fair.
Comment by sharon on June 29, 2010 at 10:41am
I miss mu Mom too. my mom was a funny loving woman and she loved everyone thats how she was , on Novemeber 1st she called and had a hard time breathing and refused to go to the Hospital. the same night she told me I LOVE YOU ! thats something i will rememeber and have by my heart for ever . and the next day she went to the hopsital and she was in a coma and so helpless watching her lay there thinking it should had been me not her,
5 mins later she passed on I guess we are always likey to have a mother but she will be missed . I been haveing a difficult time still after 8 mos and i am a parent to 2 great children and everything i had trouble i called her for Advise . i am starting to relize that i can not do that no more,
As my Sister and i went to church for the frist time ( Mom's Church )
and it felt funny with out her there but i looked for her but knowing she is where she belongs and she was with us in sprit.
I still Miss her dearly and think of her always.
Comment by DINESE DAM on June 26, 2010 at 2:40pm
My mom died March 25, 2010. I miss her so much. At first itr was just to hard to even feel like she was done. It didn't feel like it. Now that sister is about to pass any day now, I am really feeling the loss of my mother.
Comment by Michelle Batacan Alexander on June 24, 2010 at 6:41am
I am 53 years old. I am a mother, a soon to be grandmother. Thank God those parts of my heart don't hurt. It is the daughter in me that is sorrowful. The sister in me that shares the hurt. Our mom, Rose, died on June 8, 2010 around 12:10pm quietly in her sleep. I was at work. I had been at her side all evening. We prayed together, we listened to music together. I gave her hugs and kisses and told her that we all loved her very much. I rushed home from work. Mom had passed, and the room was still filled with her warmth and her generous heart. I held her hand, stroked her temple tenderly and whispered we love you. It's ok I kept saying. Mom was gone.
She was a doctor, a teacher, a mother, a grandmother. She was 89 and would be 90 in October. The photo was taken May 25, 2010. She battled Parkinsons, Severe Osteoporosis and finally Breast Cancer.
I am so fortunate to have had a most wonderful, tender, caring, loving mother. I am also so fortunate to have had the gift of being near her and seeing her everyday, taking care of her and giving back to her the love she gave us all these years.
When I feel the sadness and tears well up inside of me, and I let them flow, I know that it is the testimony that there is a very real and
well loved part of my heart that will never be the same again. I miss my mom. always.
Comment by Kirstine Rushing on June 17, 2010 at 11:49am
The last hug and conversation is what I long for to, but then after it happened, I would want another one. I could never have enough time with her. She was my best friend and just meant everything to me. Like you, my heart hurts beyond belief everyday grieving for her. I just so badly need her back in my life. I am having a baby and so badly wish we could go shopping together. She always had the best advice and I can just see us giggling walking around Babies R Us together. I can still smell her sweet smell too. Nothing like having your mom in your life, that's for sure. She was my rock!
 

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