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I miss my Mom!

If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....

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Comment by Jun White on October 1, 2011 at 4:30pm

My Mom passed away on August 25, 2011 at the age of 70.  I was right there with her when she took her last breath.  I still can't believe she is gone.  If people say there is life after death, then how can I talk to her?  I want to know how she is doing. I miss her terribly on this earth.  Here is to pay tribute:

Video I made for her 

Comment by mercy on October 1, 2011 at 3:48pm

I miss my mom so much and everytime I see a woman her age, I feel cheated of my mom. I remember to be thankful for the 72 years she had on this earth but being abroad since I was 18, is hard since I never spent a lot of time with her. My co-worker keeps wishing her mom dead, she says she's a burden. I wish I could have mom here with me, even if I had to carry her on my back or feed her. It saddens me that someone can have such disregard for their mother.

Comment by mercy on October 1, 2011 at 3:20pm
Hi Elaine, I’m reading your messages and feeling your pain. I could write those words exactly as you’ve written them. I’m so tired of life without mom and I keep thinking I’m only here to take care of my daughters needs since my life essentially ended on May 29 2011. I’ll never be the same; I don’t ever want to be the same since life as I knew it ended anyway.
I’m here for you,
Mercy.
Comment by Rachel Lynn Schuler on September 26, 2011 at 4:21am
its almost a year since my mom passed, the ache is just as bad....i keep thinking of her....how much she meant to me, talking to her every day....i miss her so....i wish she was here, but in some ways she is....death is so hard....especiallly when you love that person with all your heart, but a new love is coming into my life, and he will guide me through, im blessed
Comment by Rachel Lynn Schuler on September 26, 2011 at 4:18am
your so right Elaine....i miss my mom so much....so much
Comment by Rachel Lynn Schuler on September 25, 2011 at 3:03pm
im missing my mom particularly today for some reason, i have vivid images of her running through my mind, the ache is still there....i love you mom....god bless sweeetie
Comment by Linda McDonnell on September 24, 2011 at 10:53pm
Jun: I so totally agree.  We are all going through grief.  I am very sorry for your loss.  Please share your feelings as you go through this process. I am grateful I had my mom for some many years. she was 91 and it was her time.  there was so much wrong with her. congestive heart failure, renal failure, bad aortic heart valve and she couldn't survive surgery.  I know she's in a better place but being the selfish person that I am still wants her here.  she was my lifeline.  She was such a treasure.  she died on may 13 exactly two months after her 91st birthday, march 13th.  She wasn't able to live alone and so I took into my home and she was my best friend.  thanks for letting me share.  And once again I am so so sorry for your loss
Comment by Jun White on September 24, 2011 at 10:46pm

Elaine, I lost my Mom one month ago today.  She was 70, died of lung cancer and colon cancer.  She never smoked a day in her life, a very kind and understanding person.  I was by her bedside when she died, that image is like a movie played again and again in my head.  I cry every time I think about her.  I found the half-knit sweater she made for me while going through chemo, and her hand-written recipes....

As I was driving home from work yesterday, I heard the station was playing Bruno Mars' "Talking to the Moon", my eyes were full of tears, I couldn't see the road ahead of me.  How I wish I could talk to her again.  People say there is life after death, but I have not seen any signs.  I want my Mom back!

Elaine, many people in this world are going through the same thing you are going through.  Let's help each other.

Comment by Linda McDonnell on September 24, 2011 at 9:44pm

Elaine: have you gone to a grief support group or counselor to help you deal with your loss?

Comment by Linda McDonnell on September 22, 2011 at 9:24pm

Elaine:  I know you're hurting.  We all know how that feels.  Circumstances differ but your Mom would want you to go on.  And she is with you, she's watching over you.  I've been crying for months and feeling very very bad.  I know my mom doesn't want me to feel this way.  She wants me to be happy and right now that seems impossible. 

 

Look at my last entry.  The co-worker I told you about is getting worse, cancer is spreading.  She in stage 5.  Everything is starting to shut down. It made me so sad, she is only 46.  And then I'm whining about my loss.  I felt so quilty.  Her daughter is pregnant and she's doesn't know if she'll get to see her grandchild.  So sad.

 

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