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I miss my Mom!

If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....

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Comment by Nadine Fox on July 26, 2011 at 10:27am
anonymous- yes i feel that way.....i wish i had visited her more often, i would have seen she wasn't eating enough to keep her strength,  then when she fell, hit her head, she had nothing to fight back with....if only...............
Comment by Karon B. Porter on July 26, 2011 at 10:21am

When you are grieving it’s important that you take care of yourself through difficult times. We’ve all been knocked off center and find it hard to take care of our own health needs.

I would like to take this time out to thank you guys for sharing your stories.  I lost my MOM almost 5 years ago.  I still feel the pain.  I miss her SO much. Please take this time to take care of yourself.  I have been a beach body coach for almost 1 year now.... I must say it has change my life 100%.  I workout everyday right from my own home using P90x, Insanity, Asylum, TurboFire, and others.  if you would like to know more about it, please contact me karonbporter@yahoo.com. Here is a link to my website where you can find more information. www.beachbodycoach.com/karonbporter

Comment by K.T on July 25, 2011 at 6:35pm
Does anyone else have the overpowering feeling of guilt that you could have done something to prevent your Mum's death? I lost my mum 3 months ago to cancer and I can't stop feeling that there might have been something else I could have done to help her sooner. I feel like I've let down the most important person in my life and it's killing me!
Comment by mercy on July 25, 2011 at 12:45pm
I truly do miss mom, when I think I'm doing ok, something happens to bring back memories and tears just stream uncontrollably. Its like life ended with moms death. I don't care about anything anymore; all I want is to lie down and be transported to moms side and be there forever. My mom, my angel, I love you.
Comment by Marianne grucza on July 24, 2011 at 6:32am
I am new I was looking also for a support group there really is not one in my city that I like I believe in God 100% I . I shaving a hard time
Anyways. It has been a week we just buried my mom last Monday 7/17 it was ok for about 2hours then it was like a bomb went off in my gut,yeah me and mom had a thing lol she loved her kids like that though everyone was her favorite . But you know funerals can get my 2 bro's are mad at my sister ,so know that everyone is not speaking to each other well I am somewhat alone my daughter even got caught up in it ok but the main thing is I need someppl who are going through this also I realize it is life but wow my dad has been gone 3 years and I still miss him too it is not as bad as mom love u all
Comment by Nadine Fox on July 18, 2011 at 2:21pm
It's almost 6 months since my Mom has died. And today and tomorrow I am taking all of her belongings and putting them in storage or giving them away. I got really nasty to my BF when he was moving things. Later I was able to tell him to please forgive my outbursts as these are Moms belongings and it's all I have left of my Mom. Thankfully he's understanding of that. I plan on going back the last trip alone.....before I hand the keys over to the bank.........
Comment by mercy on July 18, 2011 at 12:41pm
Tracey; I hear your pain, I live it everyday. My mom has been gone for six or seven weeks, I don't even count any more as its too depressing to think so much time has passed. I miss her daily, I struggle just to get through the day. She left a big empty hole that will never be filled by anything or anyone. I don't know how to go on, I always dream of just going into this deep sleep and joining my mom. I miss mom, so, so much. Its never going to be the same ever again.
Comment by chrissy m on July 14, 2011 at 5:30pm
wow, mom, i miss you so much its unbelievable. as i sit in the garden she created i can't believe she was taken from me so young. how am i suppose to go on without her? how am i suppose to grow up and become half the woman she was without her?  love you so much mom XXXXXXX
Comment by Tracey Manders on July 14, 2011 at 1:19pm
I decided to Join Online Grief Support when I was surfing for a group online. I saw this group board while doing that. It showed me, finally, that I wasn't alone in my sadness at the lose of my mother 6 years ago on June 23rd. I always thought as time went on that I would find peace without her. But, some days, I just find myself lost without her. I really want to move forward, and try daily. It's just this feeling of having a hole in my heart, in my life, that just won't go away. I know her memories live on inside me forever, but when will the crying stop. When will I feel whole again. I truely pray for anyone who's lost their mother, and wish them Peace. As I truly desire for myself.... <3
Comment by Robin Williams on July 13, 2011 at 6:35pm

Cindy-

I know how you feel- I felt the same way on my birthday.  My moma always made my birthday so special.  It will never be the same.  A very special aunt did remind me of how much my moma loved me and how she had never seen my moma look as happy as when my brother and I were born.  I tried to remember that and remember that she gave me life and to acknowledge the day as an honor to her.  Good luck to you and I hope you have a blessed day.

 

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