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sometimes its mentally tough and on some days physically tough. Had this huge issue last week where I experienced shortness of breath. Dizziness in the first two months sometimes now. On that note, Iwould suggest to all to avoid driving if you can.
Looks like most of the husbands are not getting it ? Can't 'move on' so quickly, looks like this term is being used worldwide. Can't 'get over it' but that's perfectly ok. Jeff, tell us how you 'get used to it'. The fact that one cannot make those regular calls is a killer. The reassurance is missing, makes me not so strong anymore like I used to be.
I have heard the "move on" more than once this past week. I am not able to. I have a lot of my mom things at my home. My husband said I needed to get rid of some stuff. I can't, I just can't. He is right, i do not need another bedroom set, I do not need anymore kitchen things, I do not need anymore nick nacks. But they were my moms. I can't do it.
The difference with medical malpractice, though, is that there's actually at least one (sub-) human to blame for the so-called error. So it's very difficult to get over/used to any of it. While my family's lawsuits won't bring mom back, we can at least try to squeeze as much money out of the killers as possible to hopefully make it hurt them as much as they hurt us - or to least make them never forget what they did to mom.
You never 'get over it' you just "get used to it"
Just happened to read your post again Shawna and the words 'get over it' sprang out. You never get over it so your husband does not know anything about this to be honest. And none of us are expected to. You can try to adjust to the new life and function like you have been doing quite well I would think but you want to run from people who ask you to get over it. It's not their fault, they don't know.
Reading these posts are really helpful as I see others experience many of the same things I have and am going through. It does help to know what I feel is "normal" as in day to day living many do not talk about their loves ones passed and at times I feel awkward in speaking about my late mother. I will not stop though as she was such a large part of my life it is my way of keeping her memory alive and not tucking it away as though she did not exist.
your right jeff she would want that....i miss my mom terribly but i know she wants me to be happy and i am living life to the fullest....i cry almost every day but iknow she wants me to go on....her death date is Dec. 8 and im singing in a concert that day....it will be a blessing and a nice tribute to her
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