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I miss my Mom!

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Comment by Theresa on July 30, 2018 at 5:34am

Hi Avi, I was just thinking the same thing about everyone, Bluebell, we are hoping you are doing well.

How are you doing Avi?

Comment by Avi on July 30, 2018 at 12:45am

Hi guys 

How all are doing. How are you BlueBell?

Comment by Brett Bowman on July 25, 2018 at 10:08am

That would be so nice.

Comment by Theresa on July 25, 2018 at 6:02am

Wow Avi that is so great, she was probably right there next to you.

Comment by Avi on July 25, 2018 at 1:07am

I heard some voice Brett but it was like myself talking to myself but out of nowhere. I was sleeping with my shoulder underneath my head so that I tell myself that it is paining, then I woke up and yes it was actually paining. Then I changed my position. 

Comment by Brett Bowman on July 25, 2018 at 12:44am

Avi, that's wonderful. I'd like to know more. Did you hear a voice or was it just a feeling like your mom was near?

Comment by Avi on July 25, 2018 at 12:34am

Guys yesterday night was great experience. I was remembering my mom since I was on bed to sleep and in the middle of night I experienced some comfort like somebody is talking to me. It may be in dreams as well but it was something different. 

Comment by Brett Bowman on July 23, 2018 at 10:25am

Crystal, I hope that therapy will help you. I'm glad that you are being proactive.

Comment by Brett Bowman on July 23, 2018 at 10:23am

It was similar for me, Avi. I was putting my mom through too much. It had to stop. My mom was lucid. And she had rights. I nagged her a lot. If I couldn't get her to go to the ER, I would just sneak and call 911. I don't feel guilty about that. She would have done the same if it had been me, but towards the end when it became apparent that she could not be saved, I said, "Okay, mom." She had the right govern her own body. She was still lucid.

The lady I talked to. Her prognosis is bad. Treatment could not save her. It could only extend her life. I completely understand her decision. However, many forms of cancer are treatable, and if it's caught in time, I would hope that any reasonable person would undergo treatment.

Comment by Avi on July 23, 2018 at 5:08am

Thanks Crystal. Hope it helps you

 

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