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I miss my Mom!

If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....

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Comment by Amy Gregory on March 25, 2013 at 5:06pm
Nancy my condolences to you also. My mothers name was Nancy and we lost her 3 1/2 weeks ago. My dad wanted my sister and I to go through her stuff while he was out of town. We have spent the last two days doing this and it has been very painful. My sister and I felt it was too soon but honored my dads wishes. We also don't care about her things and wish we had her back. Life is not the same and never will be.
Comment by Nancy L on March 25, 2013 at 4:06pm

My condolences to those who have joined our group.

I spent saturday going through mom's things with my brother and sisters. I have said before that it breaks my heart to have to go through her things. I don't care about her things, I want my mom back! 

I feel a void also...will it ever fill back in? 

 

Comment by michael sandoval on March 25, 2013 at 10:34am

Dear Cindy , My condolences.

Dear Jeff,

My situation was similar to yours.  My mom was in a wheelchair and i saw almost everyday.  I would stop by to help around the house for my mom and dad.  When my mom got sick at the end, I moved back home to help dad care for mom.  Now i'm here with dad and it is so sad.  I think about my life with mom all the time.  she was an amazing woman and i miss her so much, i cry all the time.

God Bless.

Comment by Cindy Czarnecki on March 25, 2013 at 10:29am

Well, today is my first birthday without my mom.   It is 5 months and 9 days since she died.  Mom always started the day with an early morning phone call from her,  wanting to be the first one to wish me a Happy Birthday!! Have a physical planned for today, since I can't spend the day with my mom, will spend it with my doctor.  At least he will understand how I am feeling.

Comment by Jeff R on March 25, 2013 at 10:16am

Yeah, even though my Mom couldn't get outside of the house on her own anymore (she was dependent on me), I saw her every weekend.  Part of that was the systematic running of errands, buying groceries and stuff.  I really miss seeing her now, even if it was just sitting around for an hour or two watching the TV, having a cup of coffee, etc.  I just tell myself she's a peace now and past all of her physical struggles with Parkinson's disease.  The last year was so difficult for her, bless her soul.  She was a real trouper. :-)

Comment by Karen Van Benschoten on March 24, 2013 at 9:47am

A week from tomorrow, my mom will have been gone 6 months now. It's hard to believe how fast time can go. After I went to bed last night, I started thinking about my mom, and got that familiar aching hole in my chest that I get whenever I think of her. But this time, instead of trying to push it away, I allowed myself to feel the pain, the grief, and maybe took one step closer to being able to think about her. I have no idea how long this grief process is going to take, but I think I'm still in the denial stage. I've got a long way to go...

Comment by Amanda on March 24, 2013 at 8:48am
Sue, I could have wrote your message! Sunday was my day with my mom too. We would look at the newspaper for coupons and then go to the mall, target, and out for lunch. She was my best friend. We made each other laugh like no one else could. My mom passed in August 2012 of cancer, she was 54.
Comment by Sue Waxman on March 24, 2013 at 7:24am

Hello Friends,

It is another Sunday I am without my Mom. We use to go shopping and to the movies...out to eat every Sunday was OUR day. It will be 2 years June 26th. I am completely alone in the world. I recently started a new job and the office manager is so mean and controlling. I prayed that God would show me what he wants me to do with the rest of my life. I cannot imagine this is where he wants me to be. But I accept HIS will. I miss my Mom more and more as time goes on. I realize more how much I needed her. She was the only person that ever loved me for who I am. I could always count on her. I catch myself always with a sad face. I am trying to survive this world without her beside me. God bless all of you.

 

Comment by Sandy Thompson Harris on March 24, 2013 at 7:07am

Jeff R

 Thank you for kind words - people don't realize how much they mean to those of us trying to cope with this walk of grief we suddenly find ourselves traveling.  Thankful to all of you in this community, so very thankful.

Comment by Jeff R on March 23, 2013 at 9:42pm

My condolences to you Sandy; it must be hard, I can't imagine.  My uncle was killed in a head on auto collision many years ago.  My family was devastated.  My prayers for you and your family.

 

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