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Comment by Tania Isaacs on August 2, 2010 at 2:30pm

My Mom;'s birthday is coming up.. Aug. 4. Its going to be a difficult day, but like Crystal said, I have to be strong for my 5 year old son who misses his "Nant" very much. My mother passed awau on Feb 12 2010 and Valentines Day will never be the same for me, its just to close to the most painful day of my life. This does suck!

Comment by Crystal B on July 26, 2010 at 6:46pm

My mom's birthday was July 18th.. just a few weeks after she passed. That was so hard.. makes me not want to celebrate any holidays anymore.. but I can't do that to my baby daughter.. ugh this sucks.

Comment by Tania Isaacs on July 22, 2010 at 5:40pm

Hi April, my mom passed away on Feb.12 2010. People tell me that the pain will begin to ease with time, so far thats not the case. I am still as raw as I was in Feb. Its not helping that moms birthday is coming up on Aug 4. I cry a lot. My soul literally hurts and I am doing the best I can with losing her but it is hell. I understand your pain and am sorry for it. No one should have to hurt like this. I will pray for you. Hang in there, you're not alone.

Comment by Dana LaPaglia on July 21, 2010 at 11:46pm

April if you would like to talk one on one my email is maxi113@live.com maybe we can help each other in some way big or little it does not matter, just that we try. Dana.

Comment by Dana LaPaglia on July 21, 2010 at 11:42pm

Hi April I know when I here my Moms message I still can not believe shes gone either! Her message makes me laugh because my Mom just did not quite understand electronics and how they work so when she talked on the answering machine I think she thought she was actually talking to me and waiting for an answer from me, so silly but I love Her so much and miss Her deeply! Daddy too.

Comment by April Hensley on July 21, 2010 at 11:05pm

Thanks, Dana. I'm so sorry for your loss, I know that people say that all the time, but I seem to have developed a really thin skin and a lot of empathy towards others since my mom passed. So I really do mean it. No one knows what that loss feels like unless they have experienced it, so it makes me angry when people who haven't lost anyone they love, especially their mom, say it to me. I was cleaning up my voicemail box yesterday and there was a message from her from November on there. She sounded so healthy, so alive, that it's hard for me to believe she is gone.

Comment by Dana LaPaglia on July 18, 2010 at 11:12pm

April hi my name is Dana, it has been 16 months since my mom died and 15 since my Dad. I still have those Days everyday I cry and when I go to bed I cry, so no there is nothing wrong with You. We all grieve in our own ways and on our own time! I still have my Moms message on my cell phone and I have no plans on ever deleting it! their room is still the same I have not cleaned it out my Husband has been great he said when ever Im ready who knows when that will be. And You do have someone to talk to You just do not know me but I am here! my Dad died on the 19th and was born on the 19th. I will keep You in my prayers. Dana.

Comment by April Hensley on July 16, 2010 at 11:16pm

It will be two months on the 19th since my mom left. She became ill suddenly in February, two weeks after my grandmother died. I miss both of them so much, every day. The tears come in waves. Some days I don't feel anything, other days I can't stop crying. My brother seems to have moved on, and my sister is doing ok, but I quit my job because I couldn't handle working with the public in a service atmosphere, seeing her everywhere I looked, every customer was my mom. Then there's the muzak cd playing in the background, all very innocuous, except all the songs reminded me of her-they were some of her favorites, some made me think of her, and some were just plain sad. I spent more time in the bathroom crying then I did on the sales floor and my concentration level is zip. I used to read 3 books a week. Now I'm lucky if I finish one in 3 weeks. I miss her so much, there is no one for me to talk to like I could talk to my mom. I still haven't deleted her cell phone number from my phone. I just want to talk to her one last time...

Comment by Sue Lavery on July 9, 2010 at 7:23pm

Eve I too feel like I'm to blame. I was there everyday and fighting every day and I was getting tired of fighting but my family wouldn't help me fight. My Mom too was my rock and she was such a special person that even people who only knew her a little said that she had something about her that drew them too her. If I could only be half the person she was I would be happy.

Comment by Sue Lavery on July 9, 2010 at 7:21pm

I miss my Mom so much. I was her caregiver even though she was in a nursing home. I was there every day but went away on a holiday and she passed and my sisters had her funeral without me. I did okay while I was away but I'm finding more and more I get very teary eyed just because. i really miss my Mom but my family really have moved on. Just like she said they were there for the money. She always said she felt they were waiting for her to die to get her money. I just wish I could tell her once more how much I love her

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