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Comment by mercy on November 13, 2011 at 3:10pm

Rachel; hope you are doing well. I miss reading your posts. I hope things are looking up for you. Talk later.

Comment by mercy on November 13, 2011 at 3:09pm

Hi

Comment by mercy on November 13, 2011 at 3:09pm

Melissa; I know the feeling of everyone moving on and feeling like you are the only one who cannot. My sibblings have very busy and full lives, they are very preoccupied with their kids, friends, etc. I live far from home and my life though busy, is very predictable. I feel like I don't even want to get over this process because it will feel like I'm leaving my mom behind. I'm coping a little better but I know this grief will last the rest of my life.

Comment by Melissa Broome on November 13, 2011 at 12:05am

Denise thank you so much for you kind words..I'm so sorry about your mom. Your right exactly that's how I feel everyone was able to return to their normal lifes But I can't. I miss her so much. I feel like I can't fully let out all the grief I feel because I don't think I could live through it..So I let a little out at a time.. I can't keep it bottled up. it used to hurt me so bad when someone would talk about her I would just clam up or walk. away but I want to talk about her now. everyone has seemed to have moved on and I haven't I don't know if I can move on without her here. My whole life had my mom in it.

Hugs to you, Melissa

Comment by Jun White on November 12, 2011 at 8:22pm

I felt like I am on the training, Mom got off, the train kept on moving, left her further and further behind......

Comment by Denise Murphy on November 12, 2011 at 3:37pm

Hi Melissa,

I'm sorry for your loss, my mom died in 2005 and she was my best friend.  Like you we spoke everyday, sometimes for hours.  When she died I felt like everyone else went back to their normal lives except me because my normal like included her.  It took me a while to realize I would never have that normal life again.  What helped me was I journaled everyday, and prayed to God to give me some peace.  I knew that my mom would want me to live a full joyful life which kept me going.  I too went to reach for the phone anytime the kids did something, or a situation would come up in my life that I wanted her advice.  I also joined a 6 week bereavement group that really helped me alot, I did that about 9 months after her death.  I can tell you that it does get better, everyone's time line is different, we all grieve in our own way.  I will miss her to the day I die, and I believe I will see her again, that gives me hope.  I will keep you in my prayers.  Take care of yourself!

God Bless,

Denise

Comment by Rachel Lynn Schuler on November 12, 2011 at 3:33pm

that dreaded time of year is approaching, not sure how it will be, hopefully peaceful, i just want my mom back....i lost here near thanskgiving and christmas, this is going to be so hard....but i have a new loved one that will support me....my sentiments to all that will have a hard time this year....love to all....rachel....mercy, write me girl

Comment by Melissa Broome on November 12, 2011 at 5:42am

Hello Everyone I'm new here.. I lost my mom 7 months ago..It's really hard to function daily without her because not only did I lose my mom I lost my best friend. We talked on the phone alot..every single day in fact if one of us didn't hear from the other we always thought something was wrong so we would call each other no matter what time of day or night to check why the other didn't call.. I miss those calls..after she passed I still found myself reaching for the phone trying to tell her something the kids did that day..I would start to dial and then remember she was gone :( Or  I would dream about her it would be so real and when I woke it was like losing her all over again. It's been hard..But I try to stay strong for my children..Sorry to talk your ear off...but not many people will listen thanx so much I hope we all can become friends. :)

Comment by Cindi B on November 7, 2011 at 4:07pm

I'm Sooo not ready for the holidays. My solution is to just stay busy. My boyfriend and I are driving home for the week of Thanksgiving, and I've scheduled everyday to the fullest. I hope that works. I have a feeling it won't, but it's worth a try. Christmas...I can't even begin to think about that.

Comment by Kevin Velez on November 6, 2011 at 10:04pm

Sue, I'm sorry to hear about your experience.  it's not worth fighting over material stuff.  I hope you do what is best for you and it seems like you do.  it's hard enough to deal with the loss of your mom and in my opinion I agree with your decision to walk away.  it's not worth it.  be strong!  peace.

 

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