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I miss my Mom!

If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....

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Comment by valerie cox on December 5, 2015 at 8:45pm

Thank you margie. Yes i was just crying again, i am so scared about my teeth, and disbelief my mom isnt here. I know how hard this is on you too. I am here if you need someone to talk to.

Comment by Margie S. on December 5, 2015 at 8:04pm

Valerie, I am so sorry to hear about what you are going through.  Your mom, your teeth, your anxiety and the person you were seeing.  Losing our mom has been a horrible experience for all of us.  Too much pain, pain that does not go away, tears always coming out of our eyes, sadness.  We are suffering a lot and wishing she is with us again. We miss our mom a lot.  The person you were seeing does not deserve you.  Take care of yourself.   

Comment by valerie cox on December 4, 2015 at 8:34pm

Annie i am afraid of the future too.

Comment by valerie cox on December 4, 2015 at 8:33pm

Hi Nancy, so sorry for the loss of you mom. I know the pain of reliving those last days. What a nice thing to do to celebrate her life like that. It still feels unreal to me that my mom is gone i know she is still with me but. its not the same. I was just crying . John i will watch the video.

Comment by John Barry on December 3, 2015 at 9:08am

Beyond Closure

The video I just posted was done at a TED event. She talks about closure and how we have to work with it. It's not about ignoring what happened, moving on and forgetting about it. It's about how to work with the loss.

Comment by Leila on December 3, 2015 at 12:20am
Today is my mom's birthday. Cancer stole her from us 7 months and 15 days ago. I still cry every day. She suffered so during her final two weeks on this earth, and I re-live those last days constantly. I wish I could have made her better. We will go out to dinner tonight to celebrate my beautiful mothers life. I will bring a framed photo of her with us to have at the table. I wish she was with us instead of the photo.
Comment by valerie cox on December 2, 2015 at 7:44pm

Hi Annie, I am so sorry for your loss, i know this will be my first christmas without my mom too. The whole thing is just a nightmare to me.

Comment by valerie cox on December 1, 2015 at 10:40pm

I forgot to add that the guy i as seeing said he wasnt strong enough to handle my needing time alone, so he is gone. He thought i was being selfish, he had no idea of the magnitude of my loss, he was new in the picture. I had lived with my mom for 53 yrs all my life, i never wanted to get married after what i saw what happened to my mom and dad.

Comment by valerie cox on December 1, 2015 at 10:36pm

I know Margie, i keep crying asking god the same thing, i cry and cry and say i just want my mom. I wish there was something that could make it all ok for us. I seem to just keep reliving the worst at the end, and its all to painful. Your mom sounds wonderful Margie. I have alot of anxiety, and panic attacks going on, my 2nd worst fear after losing my mom is losing teeth i have been afraid of it my whole life, and i got an infection after my mom died and they have to take one of my side teeth and i have to  get a plate or you will see it some if i smile and thats not acceptable to me, i am in alot of physical pain right now, they havent done it yet, as i was crying in the dentist office about my mom, and my teeth, and they said it didnt have to be done that day. I feel like i am living in a nightmare that i cant wake up from, its all to much. I just keep asking god to help. I have isolated, and i needed to some what but not as much as i am, but i cant help it i am just scared to death right now. When my mom first died i had just started seeing someone, and i was in shock for a week, and then i told him i needed some time alone to grieve, when the shock wore off i was just sick, i still feel sick inside. I dont feel ok.

Comment by Margie S. on December 1, 2015 at 8:02pm

Every day when I finish working and get in the car to go home, the first thing I do is cry.  I cry and cry and ask why my mom is gone. I can't believe it.  She was so adorable.  Singing and dancing for me. Posing for me.  There are so many things that are stuck in my mind, things that I will never forget. She taught me values and principles. She was very proud of me.  I wish I have her with me right now. Mom, I love you so much.

 

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