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I miss my Mom!

If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....

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I am lost without her! (MOM) 9 Replies

Started by DeeDee. Last reply by DeeDee Jul 26.

I miss my Mom too.

Started by Anthony Jul 25.

Not only do I miss her, feel like I lost my purpose. Why go on? 7 Replies

Started by Jennifer Nuss. Last reply by Michael Thompson May 29.

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Comment by BLUEBELL on Sunday

I understand how you feel Virginia when you say nothing makes sense anymore. It is like a puzzle that once fit together. But now pieces are either missing or have changed shape.

Bluebell

Comment by Brett Bowman on Sunday

You wouldn't have posted if nothing mattered. Don't give up.

Comment by Virginia G on Sunday

Nothing matters, nothing makes sense anymore.  Lost, trapped, alone, scared

Comment by Brett Bowman on Sunday

Daylight, to be honest it's not that hard. When I first lost mom I was hurt deeply by many of my "friends" even families indifference, but I got over that pretty quickly. I am just indifferent to them in return, and I am not faking it. Indifference breeds indifference. Friendship is a two way street. When people are indifferent over something that hurts you so badly, your friendship with them was never as strong as you may have thought. There are some people that I used to think of as friends. Now I think of them as acquaintances. Some folks just can't see past their shell. They have their own little world, and until this happens to them, they cannot know. It may have even happened to a lot of them and it may have hurt them greatly, but you learn that you were always an arm's length away from them. You just didn't know it.

Comment by Virginia G on Sunday

How do I get to her?  I need to get to her.

Comment by Brett Bowman on Sunday

Bluebell, I think she's okay. She's just getting old. She has diabetes and she can't see. All of this just reminds me of her mortality. I saw her sister die last year. There is something so sad about all of this. I have her today but I am holding on to a piece of the past. The last remnant of a past that I love dearly.

Comment by Daylight on Sunday
Hi everyone! Sorry for not posting anymore. I haven't been brave enough to do it. I think is denial hitting back. However, I've been reading your comments every day. You seem like the only people on earth that can understand me. I understand your feelings as well. So sorry to think about the inevitable loss of our beloved pets. My is nine years old, hope are can make it a few years more. I feeling so alone at the moment. Nobody seems to understand my pain. I was wondering how you cope with people's indifference... my regards to you all.
Comment by BLUEBELL on Sunday

Is she not in good health Brett?
Bluebell

Comment by Brett Bowman on Sunday

My little girl is 12 and it's a hard reality to know that the thing I love most probably won't be with me much longer. She is all that I have left of my mom.

This is horrible.

Comment by Theresa on Sunday

Yes Welcome Back Bluebell, I as Brett said find that pleasure with my dog, and he is 11, I try to enjoy every moment.

I have to say I work alot because it keeps my mind occupied, and I had friends at the pool, but when all is said and done I'm alone and I think of all the phone calls to my mom and my Sunday visits were she would cook.  Sadly my heart still hurts and yes I do cry.  I do pray that I find peace someday...

 

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