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I miss my Mom!

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Comment by Brett Bowman on August 15, 2018 at 9:46pm

Avi, I will message my phone # to you. In fact, anyone who wants to call me can. I am convinced that none of you are strung out crackheads, trolling the internet.

Comment by Avi on August 15, 2018 at 9:42pm

Thanks BlueBell and Brett. 

Bluebell wishing that you get perfect soon. 

Brett, do you have a skype Id where we can have a call?

Comment by Brett Bowman on August 14, 2018 at 8:42pm

Avi, I am so happy for you. And you are obviously doing better with women than I am...

Comment by BLUEBELL on August 14, 2018 at 3:30pm

Congratulations Avi!

Bluebell

Comment by Theresa on August 14, 2018 at 6:45am

Your mom is all around you...

Comment by Avi on August 14, 2018 at 6:15am

Thanks a lot Theressa. 

For 4 days it was a roller coaster ride as we were in hospital but now as I am at my home I again get sad feeling my mother's absence. My wife and daughter is at my wife's place as there is no lady at my place to take care. My father is also sad as he believes that if my mother would have been alive then my daughter would have been here with us. 

Comment by Theresa on August 14, 2018 at 5:40am

Congratulations Avi!!!!! You have many happy years ahead of you!!!

Comment by Avi on August 14, 2018 at 12:41am

Hi All Guys

I was away for few days as I am blessed with a baby girl on 10 Aug 18. Both mother and baby doing fine. 

I planned my baby only as my mother wanted to see her grand child but destiny had other plans. But I hope she has still blessed her when she was born and is taking care of her grand child now. 

Crystal, I also had anxiety attacks earlier and I used to wake up with panic in nights but engaging in different activities like Theressa has helped me overcome it. I get tired by night, talk to my mother for few mins and then I am able to sleep. 

Comment by Theresa on August 13, 2018 at 5:55am

Anxiety/panic is awful, I had it so bad after my mom passed I was walking with my legs shaking, it was awful I though I this how I have to live the rest of my life in a state anxiety/panic?

Just awful I understand what you are going through.

Comment by Crystal K on August 13, 2018 at 3:51am

The indifference is hard. I hate it when people ask me how Zim doing or how lifw is... I just want to scream at them “how do you think it is!” My boss constantly asks me and everytime I just respond with a “fine” or “its good.” The other day I was talking about how stressed I was and he ssid, what does a 26 year old stress about- he thought my life was all perfect. I know he means well but seriously! I lost my mom, do you think my life is ok?? I dont tell him this ofcourse because I dont want them pitying me...  I found out I have really bad panic attacks whenever Im sick... I think its the experience of my mom dying so suddenly.. I was sick last week nothing serious just bad fever and chills, probably the flu and I checked myself into the ER because I found myself panicking really thinking to myself that I may die... it was the scariest thing ever... I couldnt breathe and my heartrate was  crazy... There is a new challenge everday... 

 

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