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I miss my Mom!

If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....

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Comment by Avi on August 14, 2018 at 6:15am

Thanks a lot Theressa. 

For 4 days it was a roller coaster ride as we were in hospital but now as I am at my home I again get sad feeling my mother's absence. My wife and daughter is at my wife's place as there is no lady at my place to take care. My father is also sad as he believes that if my mother would have been alive then my daughter would have been here with us. 

Comment by Theresa on August 14, 2018 at 5:40am

Congratulations Avi!!!!! You have many happy years ahead of you!!!

Comment by Avi on August 14, 2018 at 12:41am

Hi All Guys

I was away for few days as I am blessed with a baby girl on 10 Aug 18. Both mother and baby doing fine. 

I planned my baby only as my mother wanted to see her grand child but destiny had other plans. But I hope she has still blessed her when she was born and is taking care of her grand child now. 

Crystal, I also had anxiety attacks earlier and I used to wake up with panic in nights but engaging in different activities like Theressa has helped me overcome it. I get tired by night, talk to my mother for few mins and then I am able to sleep. 

Comment by Theresa on August 13, 2018 at 5:55am

Anxiety/panic is awful, I had it so bad after my mom passed I was walking with my legs shaking, it was awful I though I this how I have to live the rest of my life in a state anxiety/panic?

Just awful I understand what you are going through.

Comment by Crystal K on August 13, 2018 at 3:51am

The indifference is hard. I hate it when people ask me how Zim doing or how lifw is... I just want to scream at them “how do you think it is!” My boss constantly asks me and everytime I just respond with a “fine” or “its good.” The other day I was talking about how stressed I was and he ssid, what does a 26 year old stress about- he thought my life was all perfect. I know he means well but seriously! I lost my mom, do you think my life is ok?? I dont tell him this ofcourse because I dont want them pitying me...  I found out I have really bad panic attacks whenever Im sick... I think its the experience of my mom dying so suddenly.. I was sick last week nothing serious just bad fever and chills, probably the flu and I checked myself into the ER because I found myself panicking really thinking to myself that I may die... it was the scariest thing ever... I couldnt breathe and my heartrate was  crazy... There is a new challenge everday... 

Comment by Theresa on August 12, 2018 at 7:04pm

I walk over to my moms picture every single night and say mom I love you I hope you know that.

Comment by Brett Bowman on August 12, 2018 at 6:55pm

I wish that I could have handled the loss of my mother better than I have but I do believe that what I am experiencing is a testament to how much I loved my mom. To have gotten through this without scars would have been awkward as well. I would have wondered if my relationship with my mom was as great as I thought. I knew how much I loved my mom when she was alive, and Lord knows, do I ever know it now that she is gone.

Comment by BLUEBELL on August 12, 2018 at 11:34am

I understand how you feel Virginia when you say nothing makes sense anymore. It is like a puzzle that once fit together. But now pieces are either missing or have changed shape.

Bluebell

Comment by Brett Bowman on August 12, 2018 at 12:08am

You wouldn't have posted if nothing mattered. Don't give up.

Comment by Virginia G on August 11, 2018 at 11:47pm

Nothing matters, nothing makes sense anymore.  Lost, trapped, alone, scared

 

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