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I miss my Mom!

If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....

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I am lost without her! (MOM) 9 Replies

Started by DeeDee. Last reply by DeeDee Jul 26.

I miss my Mom too.

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Not only do I miss her, feel like I lost my purpose. Why go on? 7 Replies

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Comment by Avi on June 25, 2018 at 12:56am

Virginia, that is the biggest setback. We do not get a second chance. Yesterday my father told me something that is causing lot of pain, regret but I am still holding up my emotions. He told me about few gestures of me and my wife which used to hurt my mother. I want to rectify my mistakes and say to my mother that those were just temporary and how much I love her. 

God's forbid us this second chance. 

Comment by Virginia G on June 25, 2018 at 12:43am

Brett,

 I cried in the oncologists office many times and in the radiologist office so I guess I’m really bad.  I am not strong like her.

I should’ve thought of how she felt instead of my own fear.  I did this the whole four years, let my own feelings take over.  I want another chance.  

Comment by Brett Bowman on June 24, 2018 at 10:24pm

That's just not what I pictured at all. No blue hair. No cat glasses. You probably don't even have a leopard print jumpsuit.

Comment by Theresa on June 24, 2018 at 1:53pm

Great photo Bluebell!

Comment by BLUEBELL on June 24, 2018 at 11:27am

Comment by BLUEBELL on June 24, 2018 at 11:23am

I did not fall. I do not have high blood pressure. It was just a fluke with no apparent cause at this time.

I am thinking of you all and wishing you the best. It makes me dizzy to read very much, so I have to keep it simple.

I love you all. I am walking the same path as you all are. You are not alone and you feelings are normal. I hear and understand all of what you all are going through and empathize. My prayers and thoughts are with you daily.

Bluebell

Comment by Avi on June 24, 2018 at 5:51am

Virginia, I had numbness when my mother took her last breath in ICU. I did not know what to do and doctor told me that she is not in good condition and just let her go. I requested them to try their best but did not ask too many questions. This was because of numbness which is brought by fear. So you are not alone who felt like this.

And I hope the belief that we will meet our loved ones somewhere someday stays intact till our journey ends.

Bluebell wish you are fine. Plz take care.

Comment by Theresa on June 24, 2018 at 5:39am

Sorry my computer is a little behind everyones posts are not showing up unless I click on them  sorry

Comment by Theresa on June 24, 2018 at 5:38am

Praying for you Bluebell.

Comment by Theresa on June 24, 2018 at 5:35am

Omg Bluebell, what happened I was wondering where you were, that scares me I get headaches all the time.

Please tell us what happened.

 

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