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I miss my Mom!

If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....

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I am lost without her! (MOM) 9 Replies

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Comment by Theresa on June 25, 2018 at 6:58pm

Bluebell, I have friends that take it and love it, not for me, now I am afraid to take something else, my dr. thinks if I can calm my anxiety my IBS will get better.

After my mom passed it was in full force wake up nervous, and that was it the ball started rolling for the day.

When you said what happened to you I freaked out, I get headaches all the time, scared me.

I hope you are feeling better.

Comment by BLUEBELL on June 25, 2018 at 8:34am

I tried Lexapro Theresa. It made me sick, unfocused, fatigued, gave me motion sickness, and made me sleepy as H E double L. It was not the drug for me. I had an abnormal reaction to it. But it is a good antidepressant for others. 

My head hurts this morning. I keep getting a stabbing pain around my right forehead or temple. No fun at all.

Bluebell

Comment by Theresa on June 25, 2018 at 5:08am

Congratulations Avi!!!! Enjoy!!!

Brett, I am anxious even before I get out of the bed and that starts everything my IBS, anxiety, headache, I will be honest I have taken Lexapro 5mg for a while after my mom passed, I stopped, I felt like a bloated balloon, my dr says I was not even taking the correct dose.  I wish I could find something that works without side effects.

Comment by Virginia G on June 25, 2018 at 1:29am

Brett do you not work regular hours since you’re up late always?  

Today when I got up I said I was afraid to be awake.  This is how messed up my mind is.

Comment by Brett Bowman on June 25, 2018 at 1:21am

Avi, your mom knows exactly how much you love her. She knows now more than ever.

Comment by Brett Bowman on June 25, 2018 at 1:20am

Virginia, I think we would all want a do-over even if we had done everything right. I did cry in front of my mom on many occasions. I can't say that I regret that. I think all of that was an affirmation of love, though I am sure that it caused my mom a good deal of worry as well. I think mom's doctor just wanted me to be particularly strong at certain times. I understand that, but those tears were a manifestation of love. They were also a manifestation of fear and regret. Maybe even selfishness on my part. I was always worried about how my mom's death would impact me. I guess that makes me human. That's all I know how to be.

Avi, I am so happy for you. Here, I think we take having a car for granted. Most of all I am happy for you because you fulfilled one of you mother's wishes.

Comment by BLUEBELL on June 25, 2018 at 1:18am

My car is red too. It is such a happy color.

Comment by BLUEBELL on June 25, 2018 at 1:17am

Awesome car Avi

Bluebell

Comment by Avi on June 25, 2018 at 1:01am

Guys this is my first car, bought specifically as a wish of my deceased mother. She loved red. 

Comment by Avi on June 25, 2018 at 1:00am

 

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