I miss my Mom!

If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....

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Started by Edger. Last reply by BLUEBELL Dec 21, 2017.

It's hard to accept ,my mother is no more 5 Replies

Started by Ambreen. Last reply by Theresa Dec 19, 2017.

Its hard accepting my mother's death 8 Replies

Started by Crystal K. Last reply by Crystal K Oct 23, 2017.

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Comment by Brett Bowman on January 22, 2018 at 11:20am

Thanks, Bluebell. I am just really going through a lot right now, and I don't know how to make it better.

Comment by BLUEBELL on January 22, 2018 at 10:30am

The dreams were an unexpected gift.

Hey Brett. It would be great to have you check in. You are missed.


Comment by Crystal K on January 22, 2018 at 6:44am

I am concerned about Brett as well. Have not heard from him since Dec.  

Comment by Theresa on January 22, 2018 at 5:20am

Bluebell that's is so wonderful to be able to have a dream like that..
I am concerned, we have not heard from Bret..

Comment by BLUEBELL on January 22, 2018 at 3:23am

I was blessed with dreams tonight that had both my Mom and Dad in it. In one, I was a little girl and ask Mom to help me because I was sick. The beautiful part was that I knew she would take care of me and make everything better again. In the other dream, Mom told me to go to be with Dad and that he was a man who strong and full of confidence. I saw myself as a little girl walking with him down a path next to a lake. It was Fall and the air was clear and crisp. Dad and I were holding hands and I felt very safe, loved and protected. Someone else was holding my hand on the other side of me, but I could not see who it was.


Comment by BLUEBELL on January 22, 2018 at 3:06am


Your Mom was a very special person to show such empathy and caring for those that took care of her. In all my years of being a nurse, I have never heard of any one doing something so caring. 


Comment by BLUEBELL on January 21, 2018 at 7:33pm

I have been very focused on work and have not checked in lately. But you all have been in my prayers every day. 

Warm, comforting hugs to all,


Comment by Jean on January 19, 2018 at 7:32pm

Hello everyone. Today was bittersweet. I went to visit a dear friend at the hospital where my mother passed almost five years ago(Feb 8th). My mother wrote a short 2 page note of thanks and love to all of the doctors and nurses and staff at the hospital about 36 hours before she passed away while there. It has taken me 5 short years to share that note and I let them scan it to post for everyone that works there to see. It made me feel great love for them all too. I only showed it to a couple of nurses that looked stressed and sad. It really lifted their spirits and made me and them feel happy even with all of the sadness all around us. I miss my mother everyday. Part of me died with her but I am determined to keep going as best that I can. She would want that. Depression has been following me for so long..

Comment by Sherri on January 18, 2018 at 7:54am

Very Well said Theresa Crystal and Betty its been 11 months for me and I still cry a lot and I have not been able to go into my mom house or even look at pictures with out feeling the overwhelming pain. As Theresa said the pain in everyday life did get softer at times I also found this wonderful group who has helped me and allowed me to open up and understand my pain. I hope everyone is doing okay as I haven't heard much from anyone just know you guys are in my thoughts!

Comment by Theresa on January 18, 2018 at 6:03am

Hi Crystal
You are still in the beginning of the grief, you have to let you body feel what it needs to, I saved voice mails from my mom and I cannot even listen to them and its been two years.
I will tell you as time has gone on the pain gets softer, it does not go away, it gets softer slightly.


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