I miss my Mom!

If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....

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Started by Edger. Last reply by BLUEBELL Dec 21, 2017.

It's hard to accept ,my mother is no more 5 Replies

Started by Ambreen. Last reply by Theresa Dec 19, 2017.

Its hard accepting my mother's death 8 Replies

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Comment by Janie m Snitko on December 17, 2017 at 9:09pm

This is so hard for me! I miss my mama so much and it does not seem anybody understands but this group! I am going to my baby half sister this year for Xmas. By my father's 2nd marriage . She lost her own mother many yrs ago. I am trying to pull through and be upbeat but lordy I miss her (my mama) so much. I want private crying time! God bless you all and have a good Christmas. Janie

Comment by Theresa on December 16, 2017 at 5:54am

Bluebell, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
My brother called me the other day and he said are you ok? There is a twenty year age difference between us, so we are not that close and he lives five hours away.
I said to him, yes I though you would have forgotten, the 14th was 18 years since my dad passed and I said to him you know next week on the 19th is two years for mommmy and he said I know, I just wanted to make sure you are ok.
I said yes, but I cry still, of course I miss her so much.
I have busy with work and will not have a day off until Christmas day, which exhausts me, but keeps my mind busy.

Comment by BLUEBELL on December 16, 2017 at 4:17am

Another bad day. I was shopping for Christmas cards and gift bags when without warning, I broke down in tears at the register. Thank goodness the cashier was a sensitive caring person and did not just blow me off. She said "Your Mom will always be with you". There are good people in this world and I was fortunate enough to have been in the presence of one when I became overwhelmed with emotion. 

I pray you all are getting through this hard season okay. It is a hard time. For me, it is the first Christmas without my Mom. I am just feeling my way through it and doing the best I can.

I miss you Mom with all my heart.


Your daughter Pam

Comment by BLUEBELL on December 13, 2017 at 8:51am

I wish I could reach out and touch her again. I miss her.


Comment by Theresa on December 13, 2017 at 5:46am

She is right beside you Bluebell.


Comment by BLUEBELL on December 11, 2017 at 1:05pm

I do not feel very peaceful today. Lots of tears this morning because my sister and I are going to decorate Mom's Christmas tree for our get together at Mom's home on Christmas. But the sadness is mixed with good memories of when she was still with us. I am grateful for that. I guess I am grateful for the tears too because it means I loved her very much. 


Comment by Brett Bowman on December 11, 2017 at 12:53am

They have peace, yes. It's up to us to try to follow suit.

Comment by Theresa on December 10, 2017 at 7:44pm

Thank you Bluebell.  You are right they have peace.  

Comment by BLUEBELL on December 10, 2017 at 7:06pm

I read your post again Theresa. What a shock. I am so sorry.


Comment by BLUEBELL on December 10, 2017 at 10:00am

They do have peace now and that does give me comfort on the bad days.



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