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I miss my Mom!

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Comment by Brett Bowman on August 15, 2017 at 9:14pm

Bluebell, I feel you. The reality of life is that we all have to get up in the morning. I guess if a person could afford it they could just stay home all day. Janie realizes how blessed she is because she has a wonderful support system. For many of us that is just not happening. Why do I keep putting one foot in front of the other? My mom has two little dogs that I promised her that I would take care of. They are a blessing. Beyond that, I can only hope and pray that the Lord is working on our behalf. I will pray for you. I will pray for you with all my heart. We have no idea how powerful a prayer can be. We just can't know. It's sure worth a shot.

I'll tell you something else. I may have never met you. I wouldn't know you if I passed you on the street, but believe me when I tell you that I care about you and I know that you are hurting. You are not alone. I am here in North Carolina crying, too. You may not see me but I am crying right along side of you. Keep putting one foot in front of the other. Maybe you will find your way back home.

Comment by Janie m Snitko on August 15, 2017 at 8:45pm

The last comment tonight I love you Mama!!

Comment by Janie m Snitko on August 15, 2017 at 8:43pm

Bluebell I have a wonderful family support group that helps me hold it together are you by yourself?

Comment by Janie m Snitko on August 15, 2017 at 8:41pm

Hi everyone I was back at my mom's house today to continue to organize and pack her things. I was okay until I went in her special room with bears and clowns but her presence was overwhelming in this room and I knew she was with me. She continues to send me love and strength. I of course was crying but I needed to be strong. This process is hard and I said many times today my goodness Mama I do not believe all that you had that I was not aware of.  God be with her and all of us!!

Comment by BLUEBELL on August 15, 2017 at 11:21am

Tears again this morning and a broken heart. I try to keep busy, but the grief always catches up with me. I am also trying to find purpose for my life. But so many mornings I get up and ask myself what is the reason for me to get up today? I do not have the answer yet, but I will keep searching.

Comment by Brett Bowman on August 13, 2017 at 10:01am

Theresa, I think there are going to be times when we feel that peace and there will be others when we just want to cry. And we sure will cry.

As awful as it feels I also know what it is. It's love. Grieving a loved one is just one of the many ways that we express how much we love that person.

Comment by Theresa on August 13, 2017 at 9:02am
Brett May God bless you also you seem like a very kind person as I'm just driving home from the supermarket I was thinking to myself gosh it's been so long since I've talk to my mom I guess it just gets further and further and further away I filled up with tears but like you said keep going
Sundays are the worst for me we used to go to my mothers every Sunday it's hard maybe one day like people say you'll have fond memories and not sadness I hope
Comment by Brett Bowman on August 13, 2017 at 7:57am

Theresa, I am so happy that you are finding peace. There are some things that we probably worry about too much. Our mom's certainly know that we love them, and there is no doubt that they are in peace.

I still need to tell my mom that I love her. I tell her all the time. That is more for me than her. She knows. 

Those questions will be answered one day. We all have to soldier through until then. God Bless you my friend. You deserve peace. We all do.

Comment by Theresa on August 13, 2017 at 6:25am

Yesterday I went to the cemetery and tried not to cry, but I couldn't hold it in.  I said to my mom you left so fast I didn't get to tell you how much I loved you.  I light a candle everynight next to her picture and tell her how much I love and miss her and I tell her I hope she knows it. 

I know my faith has gotten me through so far, I truly believe that God has prepared something so beautiful for us and that she is in peace.  I guess one day all of my questions will be answered.

Comment by Brett Bowman on August 12, 2017 at 9:13pm

God Bless you, Janie. I think it's wonderful that you have this feeling. I wish that for everyone here. I do not know the backstory for every person on this board. We all have different feelings and different circumstances. I think a psychiatrist would have a field day with me. 

 

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