I lost my mother suddenly the day before Thanksgiving November 26, 2014. She was only 44 and I'm devastated. I don't even know how to go on without her. I started work again today but I'm so numb and painful it's hard to function.

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Hi Kim, I am feeling the same as you, I suddenly lost my Mum on the 8th november and i don't know hoe to go on without her either. One day at a time people keep telling me, whatever that means.

Im very sorry for your loss :(

Hi Kim, I lost my brother two years ago and it feels like yesterday. I just want to tell you that the pain will always be there, but you need to find ways to cope with it.  As of today, I'm still trying to find ways to cope with the loss of my brother.  Everyday, I ask God to let him come back to me or just let me know that he is okay. 

Thank you Genia. I have been trying to find ways to cope while letting myself grieve appropriately. I wish she could come back to me.

Hi Kim I am sorry for your lost. I know I don't know how you are feeling but I can relate in ways. I lost my mom on October 14,2014 but she was sickly for about 6 years. But my dad was taken from us in Feb. of 2012 suddenly. I am only 26 and I know that I feel the same as you how can I go on. But I remember that my parents loved me very much and everything I have learned and apply to my life comes from them. Even though they are gone they are with me every step of the way. My point to you is that you are your mothers daughter and we have a special bond with our moms that no one else does. We are the only ones that know what her heartbeat sounds like from inside of her. Your mom will be with you no matter what you do. Just know that it takes time for your heart to try and heal. The pain never goes away you just learn how to live with it. But I know that I try very hard to remember my parents as they were and how happy the was. I know that I am said because my mom is gone but I am also happy because she is with my father again and they are in heaven together. But if you would like Check out my page I have a couple of songs and that on there. That might help you. God Bless and I hope you try and have a Merry Christmas and A blessed New Years. 

Traci im incredibly sorry for the loss that you and your family has gone through. I know that with time the loss will hurt less but right now it feels like it will hurt like this forever. I am my mother's daughter and I can take solace in that so thank you for reminding me of that. I will definitely go to your page and check out the songs, I find music to be very healing. Thank you so much for your words of wisdom. You can always message me if you would like to talk because I know you're hurting to.

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