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How do we go on??

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Comment by Ann Marie on December 30, 2015 at 2:20pm

I'm struggling to fake being happy for the people around me but inside I just want to go get a hug from my mom.  She would always have a way of telling me Go to bed and things will be alright".  I still have this ache in my heart and it makes me so afraid to make decisions.  It's like I lost all my confidence when I lost my mom.  I'm scared and afraid - but I am an adult and should be able to be strong!!!! I don't understand all this anxiety I feel.

Comment by Linda Engberg on December 26, 2015 at 5:35am

I pray that all my good friends on this web-site made it through Christmas. It was tough but I have a wonderful neighbor who brought me a Christmas plate for dinner. There are still some people out there that really care.

Comment by D on December 25, 2015 at 11:39am
Hi Tonya
I lost my mother 25 yrs ago& its sumtg that we never get over. For me, in my early days, yrs, working, keeping bzy, with family got me thru. The hardest part? When I wznt doing those thgs. Being alone,too much time on hands& head wuz my hardest. Best advice I wuz given, by a co worker who lost her mom 3 yrs bef me?" U never get over it. But u learn to deal with it". Only we can decide, figure out, what will get us thru our loss
Comment by Tonya on December 25, 2015 at 2:56am
I know my Mom would want me to go on with life and be happy and successful the way she raised me to be and I want to make her proud but miss her so much I can't imagine this world without her
Comment by Linda Engberg on December 25, 2015 at 2:49am

Hi Tonya,

The only way I go on is the the belief that I will join him after my death, which I hope is soon.

Comment by Tonya on December 25, 2015 at 2:12am
Hi I lost my Mom 2 1/2 years ago and would greatly appreciate hearing how others have gone on with life without their mother
 

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