So Many Losses

Hi my name is Laurie In MaY of 2011 One of my cousins who I grew up around passed and 6mths later my daddy passed a year and 3 mths later my Aunt who was my world passed in the summer of 2012 another cousin passed of pneumonia, this last March my step mom lost her battle with brain cancer, in April my mama had a massive heart attack in June my 26 year old neice took her life So I'm dealing with a lot of loss of people very close to me and on top of these losses I've delt with two divorces and very recently having to put my dog that I had for seven years to sleep and my cousin stealing my other dog so I'm reaching out i need advice please

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Permalink Reply by Laurie Pullen on February 25, 2016 at 2:11am
In the middle of all of this I also lost 2 great Uncles and a great aunt
Permalink Reply by dream moon JO B on March 29, 2016 at 5:22pm

i los grt unle 2 in 2011

Permalink Reply by dream moon JO B on March 29, 2016 at 5:21pm

me 2 multi loss so ush mush loss in 1 go so sorry 2 hear abot yore lss loss/losses 2 its only plase i can let off stem u cu ds  cud say 

all i no dad dies in 2012 brefe him grt unl dies in 20111 but 2012 wz a yr frm hell u cud say i trht grt 2012 wz gon 2013 wz a yr frm hell 2 2014 yr fm hell 2015 yr fm hell 2016 seams k hell 2 all bad thns it hapnin u cud say

u wud thn iv brok mirror btiv not i dnt evn loki in mrrir 

if gods pals is 2 mak my lif hell he/her sukseandin u cud say 

nw iv my mums ilns demsa i hav nw getin yelld it getin acusin of strwlain her money keys pans so on i feal if im rotin hell bre i brn in hell wen i pass i do bean tld im evil i do i no um mums mad it me sisne her demsa sisne my dads deth my antis deth so on u cud say

evn had 1 or 2 famly n bam me fr evry its hapen 2 evry 1 frm big c 2 iles 2 death im so damged u cud say

im sorry if imrantin 2 mush or odenin u or any person on hear 

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