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Permalink Reply by Krista L on August 3, 2018 at 2:12pm

Wow, 20 years! That is a long time to be together. I am so sorry for your loss. You could check the obituaries in the paper from his home town. I had to do that for a little over a year after my guy stopped talking to me because his wife found out. He was so sick he couldn't hide anymore. So if you check once a week you will know if he has passed away. We stopped communicating in January 2015 and he died March 2017. It is the pits mourning all alone and I so understand. I hated not being able to go to his funeral or grieve for him openly. My guys wife had all my info too but she has not come after me legally. I don't think that happens very often because if she did then she would be admitting there was something wrong with her marriage and she would be embarrassed to let people know. I am sending a friend request in case you want to talk more.

Permalink Reply by Maia on August 3, 2018 at 5:27pm

Thank you Krista for reaching out. His friend just contacted me today to let me know that they're taking him off life support today. The past 2 weeks, I was just numb and not quite sure how to react but after the update from his friend tears just started pouring.