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yep i no
i no u dnt get ovr it it will hrut for evr i no all i no u hav 2 liv wif it wish i no so hrd
Pamela, sounds like you are not coping very well. It's hard to do. Have you seen a therapist, or counselor? It feels like such a lot of work, but overall I think you could possibly find a way to cope.
I know...that doesn't sound like much of a life.. coping. Sounds like something I wouldn't want. But I think that is where "it gets easier in time" comes from. You learn to cope with what was pushed onto you. Every time I do something around the house that I've never done before because Rocky always did all that, I'm pretty proud of myself and my ability to cope with that thing improves. I'm not so scared as I was before.
I'm no expert, you just sound so overwhelmed. And you are! People here know what you are going through though, so keep posting and reading.
Hi pamela my mom passed oct30/2016 and my boyfriend 5 days later nov4/2016 maybe we could help each other ive been trying to find someone in my same position wishing you lots of love and strength msg me if you want to chat sometime
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