When is it too long? - Online Grief Support - A Social Community2024-03-28T21:35:16Zhttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/forum/topics/when-is-it-too-long?groupUrl=grief-counseling&commentId=2054931%3AComment%3A338953&x=1&feed=yes&xn_auth=noThank you, Alma. I appreciate…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2020-07-29:2054931:Comment:3389532020-07-29T21:04:58.549ZJoe von Anjouhttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/JoevonAnjou
<p>Thank you, Alma. I appreciate it.</p>
<p>Thank you, Alma. I appreciate it.</p> It's ok to vent. Its a very d…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2020-07-28:2054931:Comment:3389452020-07-28T22:15:23.776ZAlma Phttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/AlmaPowell
<p>It's ok to vent. Its a very difficult year indeed. People are leaving so quickly and in ways that don't allow you to have that last few moments to say what you wish you could. It's heartbreaking. </p>
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<p>It's ok to vent. Its a very difficult year indeed. People are leaving so quickly and in ways that don't allow you to have that last few moments to say what you wish you could. It's heartbreaking. </p>
<p></p> My deepest condolences for yo…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2020-07-28:2054931:Comment:3390272020-07-28T22:07:00.503ZAlma Phttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/AlmaPowell
<p>My deepest condolences for your losses.</p>
<p>You seeing your brother though... Perhaps that's a way of him letting you know that he's with you. </p>
<p>As for the dementia with your mom, that's a really difficult disease to watch and endure.We have a few family members who have had it. I can't begin to imagine how much more harder it is when its one of your parents. The ones who raised you. Some days are better than others until things go dark. You almost feel like you watch them die out…</p>
<p>My deepest condolences for your losses.</p>
<p>You seeing your brother though... Perhaps that's a way of him letting you know that he's with you. </p>
<p>As for the dementia with your mom, that's a really difficult disease to watch and endure.We have a few family members who have had it. I can't begin to imagine how much more harder it is when its one of your parents. The ones who raised you. Some days are better than others until things go dark. You almost feel like you watch them die out before their body does. You end up grieving for such a long time because of how the disease slowly draws out. </p>
<p>That's a rough patch of life to brave through. You got through it though. They both aren't suffering anymore... and they are together until you get to see them again. I feel like, when those we love go first, then its our job to stay here as long as we can so we can accumulate as many experiences and stories that we can. That way, when we are reunited with them, we have a lot of stories to share. Even as I believe that deep in my heart, I have to say that some days are still really hard to get through. </p> i dnt no
mom her famly grefed…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2020-07-24:2054931:Comment:3388022020-07-24T22:50:13.053Zdream moon JO Bhttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/jb
<p>i dnt no</p>
<p>mom her famly grefed for mums dads for yrs evn now pn off her brthr is in resrel fasilts coz of dem /alz</p>
<p>ask why thy not bean 2 sea thm tell thm thy gon thy grevin agan</p>
<p>wen dad died i wz a rec </p>
<p>stil get upsett of 8 yrs latrer </p>
<p>bean on rolcostr of loss sisne</p>
<p>i hav 2012n wz yr of hell so wz 2013 thn 2014 2015 2016 i loss my fur kid it hlp me gt trhu darkk monets she did </p>
<p>thn 2017 i wz a victm of crim coz i wz so drand of my mom s uncs …</p>
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<p>mom her famly grefed for mums dads for yrs evn now pn off her brthr is in resrel fasilts coz of dem /alz</p>
<p>ask why thy not bean 2 sea thm tell thm thy gon thy grevin agan</p>
<p>wen dad died i wz a rec </p>
<p>stil get upsett of 8 yrs latrer </p>
<p>bean on rolcostr of loss sisne</p>
<p>i hav 2012n wz yr of hell so wz 2013 thn 2014 2015 2016 i loss my fur kid it hlp me gt trhu darkk monets she did </p>
<p>thn 2017 i wz a victm of crim coz i wz so drand of my mom s uncs dem/alz i no a porr exsuse </p>
<p>thn 2018 mor loss 2019 mor loss </p>
<p>ths yr mor loss wors bit wz i cud not get to say gudbu 2 coz of cov19</p>
<p>lozzin a frind 2 cov19 not bean abl2 say gud by 2 all of her oldd skool buddis frm yr 7 2 13 w e all sad now we in 40s/30s we is </p>
<p>it min we all need conlin we do butt cnt coz of cov19 restricsonn </p>
<p>iv bea so loww on off coz i nct get 2 sea my mom unlc coz of cov19 restrsonss ruls i feal lk its raset presers tim wastedd coz of cov 19 </p>
<p>srry sorrry if im rantin 2 mushh on yore posts s i am</p> My heart goes out to you.
My…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2020-07-23:2054931:Comment:3387792020-07-23T19:55:05.950ZJoe von Anjouhttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/JoevonAnjou
<p>My heart goes out to you.</p>
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<p>My brother was killed in a car accident twenty-five years ago. It took my twenty-five years, but I found a way to live with it. I still see my brother in my sleep.</p>
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<p>My mother died last April after a horrific five year battle with vascular dementia. That hurts worse now than it did in April.</p>
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<p>Sometimes, just talking and knowing there is someone listening helps. A couple of days ago, they had a trivia show on the local radio.…</p>
<p>My heart goes out to you.</p>
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<p>My brother was killed in a car accident twenty-five years ago. It took my twenty-five years, but I found a way to live with it. I still see my brother in my sleep.</p>
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<p>My mother died last April after a horrific five year battle with vascular dementia. That hurts worse now than it did in April.</p>
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<p>Sometimes, just talking and knowing there is someone listening helps. A couple of days ago, they had a trivia show on the local radio. I knew one answer and I phoned in. They thanked me for having the answer and wanted my details so they could send me a prize. I told them that my mother died, so I don't deserve any kind of prize. They were sympathetic. They said they still thought I deserved a prize.</p>