When does the Pain dissapate - Online Grief Support - A Social Community2024-03-28T09:59:03Zhttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/forum/topics/when-does-the-pain-dissapate?commentId=2054931%3AComment%3A282337&feed=yes&xn_auth=noA promise that makes me HOPEF…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2016-07-09:2054931:Comment:2834252016-07-09T11:22:04.584ZDennis C.http://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/DennisCole
<p>A promise that makes me HOPEFUL</p>
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<li class="eloc"><span class="cn">Re 21:</span><span class="vl">4</span> <span class="v" id="v66-21-4">And he will <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>wipe out every tear</strong></span> from their eyes, and <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>death will be no more</strong></span>, neither will <span style="text-decoration: underline;">mourning</span> nor…</span></li>
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<p>A promise that makes me HOPEFUL</p>
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<li class="eloc"><span class="cn">Re 21:</span><span class="vl">4</span> <span class="v" id="v66-21-4">And he will <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>wipe out every tear</strong></span> from their eyes, and <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>death will be no more</strong></span>, neither will <span style="text-decoration: underline;">mourning</span> nor <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>outcry</strong></span> nor <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>pain</strong></span> be anymore. The former things have passed away.”</span></li>
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<p><span class="v">No more pain....what a wonderful promise</span></p>
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<p></p> Lisa, I'm really sorry. I do…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2016-07-08:2054931:Comment:2834162016-07-08T11:59:47.920ZJeff Chttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/JeffC
<p>Lisa, I'm really sorry. I don't know what to say except that it hurts to read your words. Have you done any grief counseling? I have heard that it's a misconception that time heals. They say it's like a broken leg. Without medical attention it will only get worse. Here is a video that might help.</p>
<p>I just woke up a little while ago and started crying. I miss my girlfriend so much...…</p>
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<p>Lisa, I'm really sorry. I don't know what to say except that it hurts to read your words. Have you done any grief counseling? I have heard that it's a misconception that time heals. They say it's like a broken leg. Without medical attention it will only get worse. Here is a video that might help.</p>
<p>I just woke up a little while ago and started crying. I miss my girlfriend so much...</p>
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<p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k2Bw8_JwI48" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k2Bw8_JwI48</a></p>
<p></p> I lost my wonderful husband j…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2016-07-08:2054931:Comment:2832062016-07-08T05:24:30.447ZLisahttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/Lisa262
<p>I lost my wonderful husband just over 6 months ago. He's my entire world. He's literally the other half of me. He was my heartbeat that kept me going and looking forward to the future, the reason I wanted to wake up in the morning and get work done to better our lives. He will always be my #1, no matter what.</p>
<p>As time goes by, it's only gotten worse. Every day every is terrible and everything hurts. I've cried every single day since January 2. Time does not heal, not for me. …</p>
<p>I lost my wonderful husband just over 6 months ago. He's my entire world. He's literally the other half of me. He was my heartbeat that kept me going and looking forward to the future, the reason I wanted to wake up in the morning and get work done to better our lives. He will always be my #1, no matter what.</p>
<p>As time goes by, it's only gotten worse. Every day every is terrible and everything hurts. I've cried every single day since January 2. Time does not heal, not for me. What I have done to pass time is everything my husband and I would still be doing. Camping, hiking, being outdoors. I want to make sure his things that he worked so hard for get used properly. In every situation though, I cry, sometimes it's non stop, sometimes quiet tears. Getting out and doing things has helped with one thing. It's helped time go be a little quicker. I really, really look forward to the day I won't be here anymore. The only thing I look forward to in this world is the thought that *maybe* I can be with him again. But I don't know for sure. I wish I did or had some kind of faith in anything.</p> Thank you. I hope the same fo…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2016-07-02:2054931:Comment:2828772016-07-02T21:24:57.517Zbluebirdhttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/Kristina68
<p>Thank you. I hope the same for you and your girlfriend.</p>
<p>Thank you. I hope the same for you and your girlfriend.</p> I sincerely hope that you and…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2016-07-02:2054931:Comment:2825862016-07-02T19:30:01.638ZJeff Chttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/JeffC
<p>I sincerely hope that you and he are reunited some day. Your love for him is as powerful as it gets. I am so sorry that you were so cruelly separated from each other.</p>
<p>I sincerely hope that you and he are reunited some day. Your love for him is as powerful as it gets. I am so sorry that you were so cruelly separated from each other.</p> I think it's probably differe…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2016-07-02:2054931:Comment:2826912016-07-02T18:39:20.305Zbluebirdhttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/Kristina68
<p>I think it's probably different for each person. For me, the pain never has and never will dissipate. My husband died nearly four years ago, and every day is still unreal to me. Literally, life is now <em>unreal </em>to me, and means nothing to me. </p>
<p>I think perhaps it's at least a little bit easier for people who believe in some sort of afterlife, because at least they usually believe that they will be with their loved one again. I neither believe nor disbelieve in an afterlife -- I…</p>
<p>I think it's probably different for each person. For me, the pain never has and never will dissipate. My husband died nearly four years ago, and every day is still unreal to me. Literally, life is now <em>unreal </em>to me, and means nothing to me. </p>
<p>I think perhaps it's at least a little bit easier for people who believe in some sort of afterlife, because at least they usually believe that they will be with their loved one again. I neither believe nor disbelieve in an afterlife -- I fervently hope there is a good, peaceful afterlife in which I will be with my soulmate again, but I don't know if there actually is or not.</p>
<p>If you do have some sort of faith, then maybe speaking with a spiritual adviser of your faith would be helpful to you.</p> dnt no 4 yrs mutli loss sisne…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2016-06-30:2054931:Comment:2826442016-06-30T21:22:31.556Zdream moon JO Bhttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/jb
<p>dnt no 4 yrs mutli loss sisne 2012 evry yer sisne 2012 u cud say</p>
<p>dnt no 4 yrs mutli loss sisne 2012 evry yer sisne 2012 u cud say</p> Thanks dennis
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<p>Thanks dennis</p>
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<p>Thanks dennis</p>
<p></p> I know that there really is N…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2016-06-24:2054931:Comment:2823372016-06-24T11:17:14.063ZDennis C.http://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/DennisCole
<p>I know that there really is NO solution to our pain today. We can comfort one another, but the pain is still there.</p>
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<p>One thing that helps me through the pain of such loss is HOPE. I try hard (it doesn't work every day) to look forward to a wonderful future as promised in Gods word the Bible. Here is one scripture that helps me.</p>
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<li class="eloc"><span class="cn">Re 21:</span><span class="vl">4</span> <span class="v" id="v66-21-4">And he will wipe out every tear…</span></li>
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<p>I know that there really is NO solution to our pain today. We can comfort one another, but the pain is still there.</p>
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<p>One thing that helps me through the pain of such loss is HOPE. I try hard (it doesn't work every day) to look forward to a wonderful future as promised in Gods word the Bible. Here is one scripture that helps me.</p>
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<li class="eloc"><span class="cn">Re 21:</span><span class="vl">4</span> <span class="v" id="v66-21-4">And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.”</span></li>
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<p><span class="v">What a beautiful promise ... no more PAIN. I am confident in the future, even though I am in pain today.</span></p> I am really am sorry to hear…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2016-06-22:2054931:Comment:2820542016-06-22T21:21:39.118ZJeff Chttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/JeffC
<p>I am really am sorry to hear about your experience and the level of pain that you are dealing with. I lost my girlfriend last week due to damn cancer.</p>
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<p>Russell Friendman says that the pain will not dissipate on its own any more than your leg will if you cut it open with a chainsaw. You need professional help. </p>
<p><a href="https://www.griefrecoverymethod.com/" target="_blank">https://www.griefrecoverymethod.com/</a></p>
<p>Check YouTube for Russell Friedman…</p>
<p>I am really am sorry to hear about your experience and the level of pain that you are dealing with. I lost my girlfriend last week due to damn cancer.</p>
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<p>Russell Friendman says that the pain will not dissipate on its own any more than your leg will if you cut it open with a chainsaw. You need professional help. </p>
<p><a href="https://www.griefrecoverymethod.com/" target="_blank">https://www.griefrecoverymethod.com/</a></p>
<p>Check YouTube for Russell Friedman videos.</p>
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