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I know this is not a straight answer.
I lost my fiancee one month ago on Thursday. I cry every single day.
I try to hold myself in until I get in my car, then I scream and cry until I get home\\
Just wondering what other people do or have done to keep themselves from going crazy (which is what I feel at the moment)
Maybe never. I've been doing this for almost 3 months. I hate everything about my life now. I hate being alone, I hate the memories that intrude on every thought. Everywhere I look around me I have memories. I was with Rocky for 13 years and now I can't function.
Maybe someone has something more uplifting to say than I do
I know that there really is NO solution to our pain today. We can comfort one another, but the pain is still there.
One thing that helps me through the pain of such loss is HOPE. I try hard (it doesn't work every day) to look forward to a wonderful future as promised in Gods word the Bible. Here is one scripture that helps me.
What a beautiful promise ... no more PAIN. I am confident in the future, even though I am in pain today.
Thanks for sharing that
I am really am sorry to hear about your experience and the level of pain that you are dealing with. I lost my girlfriend last week due to damn cancer.
Russell Friendman says that the pain will not dissipate on its own any more than your leg will if you cut it open with a chainsaw. You need professional help.
Check YouTube for Russell Friedman videos.
dnt no 4 yrs mutli loss sisne 2012 evry yer sisne 2012 u cud say
I think it's probably different for each person. For me, the pain never has and never will dissipate. My husband died nearly four years ago, and every day is still unreal to me. Literally, life is now unreal to me, and means nothing to me.
I think perhaps it's at least a little bit easier for people who believe in some sort of afterlife, because at least they usually believe that they will be with their loved one again. I neither believe nor disbelieve in an afterlife -- I fervently hope there is a good, peaceful afterlife in which I will be with my soulmate again, but I don't know if there actually is or not.
If you do have some sort of faith, then maybe speaking with a spiritual adviser of your faith would be helpful to you.
I sincerely hope that you and he are reunited some day. Your love for him is as powerful as it gets. I am so sorry that you were so cruelly separated from each other.
Thank you. I hope the same for you and your girlfriend.