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Hello. To start I’m 33 currently. I lost my sister in 2007, and that has been the most difficult loss. My mother soon followed in 2008. My sister was 29 and my mother was 49. My aunt was next and then I had a short break. My childhood best friend, family essentially, was killed by a drunk driver in 2015. My younger cousin died next and in 2016 my grandmother died. I am hoping to have a longer truce with death. I get overwhelmed sometimes missing them all. My sister and mother hit me the worst. My sister was so unexpected. Also I have so few family members left. I wish I had a bigger family, and find myself envious at times when people have so many loved ones (when they are balanced) to bond with and spend time with. I’m sure others feel this way but I know no one who has had multiple main family member loss, except me. I am grateful I have my brother and two nieces from my sister, but I live away from them with my husband. Those 4 people are what and who I have. One day I hope to build a family of my own from friends. (No kids for me, and I’m happy about this). One day.
Hi, you are not alone in losing so many so soon. My family is pared down also. This new "reality" hit home 5 years ago this month when my mother passed away. She left me here to deal with the ones left until I die. Now we, my husband and I have started losing friends too. We also decided not to have kids. I still stand by that decision. So that leaves me to wrap everything up and turn out the lights. It is a lot of work and drags me down. I still have so much to get done. Feeling sad. Missing my mother. We will just have to keep going as best we can. Who knows what tomorrow will bring? Losing a dear friend to a horrible wreck really knocked the wind out of us 9 months ago. We are doing our best to enjoy whatever time we have left.