If you lost one of your parents, whether it be your mom or dad...did you or do you ever find yourself worrying about the passing of your other living parent? I find myself here lately worrying constantly about everyone around me dying. My fiancee, my mother, even myself. Is that normal?

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u dont stop worying i wory my self silly abot my mum even my dad who i lost in march i still wory abot him is he geting loked after in heven wer i hope he is u not on yore own the only person i dont wory abot is my self that online sycic jenna said that and that other 1 tara said i thnk of other peole and i shud thnk og my self i wory abot evry 1 i sum tims drive my mum crzzy at tims wen i ask her if shes ok all the time

I don't worry about myself, really. I just wonder what would happen to me if I were to die, then I start imagining stuff..I even looked up how to make a will the other day. I definitly worry about my mom the most, shes 55...and has alot of health problems. I dont think I could take her passing right now, she is my rock, always there for me. I also worry about my fiancee alot because he has a very demanding job and his health is always at risk. :( I hate feeling like this.

we hav all bean told to wite wills out but the wat certn people hav behaved ill leave wot iv got wish is not mush to charty my mums 76 bad with her nerves and a lot of other thngs but u still want yore loved 1s to cum bac from the ded and still liv for ever

I lost my dad on January 28, he was only 47. Then I lost my mom on April 9th, she was 44. Now that my family is basically dead, I have 2 kids of my own and I am always thinking the worse. I find myself constantly checking on them and I feel something bad is going to happen. I keep trying to tell myself that nothing is going to happen to them but I cant help but think that way since both my parents were taken from me so unexpectedly. So I think that once you lose someone real close to you, its normal for you to worry about it.

I completely understand. I worry about my mom too. I am even  or have had extreame fellings  of fear about death.. I kinda wish that an astroid hits earth ,so I dont have to deal with the pain again. My dad's death has got me all wierded our. so I am feeling the same way I am assuming that itnis normal. I just dont like it. 

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