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ok its update time
the kid that killed my daughter wants to claim mental defect to get out of the death penalty. i told the da in bartow fla he better send him to gitmo if he doesnt take the death penalty they so genorously offered him. he said gitmo?? he is not a terrorist!! i told him its the only prison there is where there wont be a biker waiting to deflate his lungs. at least i dont think i know any terrorists!! but im gonna start sending gitmo treats to the inmates there lol. get friends there 2 so i gotz it covered.. i broke a tooth gritting my teeth. this punk better let them kill him quietly.sorry im doing the ranting thing AGAIN!!! the update is his trial was postponed to aug 9th through the 27th of 2010. he wants life in prison! im goin to jail guyz!! no questioning it i must. but im not the type to give up women beer freedom women okfine 1 woman but you get the jist... i didnt think you could hang out and make calls to people and tell them your intentions to kill people without it being premeditated??? buy a dog guyz you cannot sneak into my home i swear it. well trying is fun for me to watch. the girls caught a guy breaking in a few years ago... ... i came in the guys laying on the floor ones got him by the throat the other had him by his crotch. yea its easy to teach the dogs zone attacks. im a dog training guru. so if any of you need training tips its my one true love. thats what i need a puppy to start training!! i may have just found what i needed to release my grief. or redirect my time should i say... thanx 4 listining i cant spell 4 crap sorry people.
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Permalink Reply by Diana Young on -
Thanks for the update, Fred. Ranting is fine! Actually, its good. I love dogs. Too bad I'm allergic to most. Can you train a bichon? They are very stubborn dogs as I have found out. LOL (((((hugs)))))
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Permalink Reply by fred upton on -
hi thanx 4 your comments and well wishes. now then onto the dog training. positive reinforcements like treats are great motovators. as well as most animals thrive on their owners praises. however.... .... heres a home security tip even the smallest dogs learn very fast. as well as it would have saved my daughters life. make a coathanger hook, put meat on it hang it on doorknobs house car etc. you cannot open a door around my house without my approval. smart tricks save lives, hopefully yours. as for training him/her id need the animal for weeks lol. thanx 4 creating a release for me. you have saved my life.
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Permalink Reply by Katherine Ellis on -
Thank you for the update Fred. I've been waiting to hear. Love the ranting cause then I know your okay. Like I said before better here then somewhere else. Sending hugs to you and family.
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Permalink Reply by healing07 on -
Hello Fred,
I feel so sorry fro your loss. I know its the terrible time for you and difficult to deal deal with it. Now I read your post ans I think you are okay. My prayers and wishes for you and for your family.
My condolences for you. Thanks for updating.
condolences
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Permalink Reply by donna henderson on -
that is wrong and i hope that the judge and jury see through his tactics, he made a choice albeit a wrong choice and in no way am i condoning his actions. but he took a life and now he has to face the consequences of his actions. He should have thought of the consequences before he did what he did, not only for himself, his family but more importantly what it would do to your family.
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