Not sure how to feel. - Online Grief Support - A Social Community2024-03-29T06:30:02Zhttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/forum/topics/not-sure-how-to-feel?groupUrl=murdervitimsfamilies&feed=yes&xn_auth=noAmanda,
I am very sorry to he…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2012-01-14:2054931:Comment:979732012-01-14T21:44:45.833ZShannon Finleyhttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/ShannonFinley
<p>Amanda,</p>
<p>I am very sorry to hear about your husband, you and your family are in my thoughts. Also, you actually did help me. You let me know that I'm not the only one who can't seem to make sense of this. It always helps to know that you're not alone. So thank you. It seems like more people than I've realized either are or have been in the same situation as I am, and it's somewhat comforting to know that there are others who feel as I do, and who are trying to cope in the same way that…</p>
<p>Amanda,</p>
<p>I am very sorry to hear about your husband, you and your family are in my thoughts. Also, you actually did help me. You let me know that I'm not the only one who can't seem to make sense of this. It always helps to know that you're not alone. So thank you. It seems like more people than I've realized either are or have been in the same situation as I am, and it's somewhat comforting to know that there are others who feel as I do, and who are trying to cope in the same way that I am. I think whenever I think about him and the hospital flashes in my mind, I will just try to block it out, and remember the last time we hung out, which was about a week before and we were all hanging out and drinking and having a great time at my house for his birthday... Maybe the good memories will one day overpower the bad ones. I hope you and your family find some sort of peace, and I hope justice is done for your husband.</p>
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<p>All my best,</p>
<p>Shannon</p> Hi Shannon,
Sorry for the los…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2012-01-14:2054931:Comment:979692012-01-14T21:24:38.575ZAmanda Abhttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/AmandaAb
<p>Hi Shannon,</p>
<p>Sorry for the loss of your friend in such a tragic way. We all cannot seem to make sense of things like this or wrap the idea around our minds, that our loved ones were really gone and taken away by someone else's choice to end their lives. My husband was also shot and killed last April. He died instantly. And when paramedics got there, it was too late. So, for me & my family the last memory I have is when he walked out of our home to go get dinner. And that was the…</p>
<p>Hi Shannon,</p>
<p>Sorry for the loss of your friend in such a tragic way. We all cannot seem to make sense of things like this or wrap the idea around our minds, that our loved ones were really gone and taken away by someone else's choice to end their lives. My husband was also shot and killed last April. He died instantly. And when paramedics got there, it was too late. So, for me & my family the last memory I have is when he walked out of our home to go get dinner. And that was the last time I seen him alive.</p>
<p>Although, you did not spend much time with him like you would have wanted, but the very short time you did should be in your mind. But I can only imagine that the memory of seeing him on the hospital takes over any other memory you had of him. I am sorry that I am not much of help here but I cant understand or accept someone else's stupid and coward decision to end the life of another. No one has the right to do that.</p>
<p>Take Care,</p>
<p>Amanda</p>