My Ex had passed of an overdose, and I'm just finding out - Online Grief Support - A Social Community2024-03-28T15:09:02Zhttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/forum/topics/my-ex-had-passed-of-an-overdose-and-i-m-just-finding-out?commentId=2054931%3AComment%3A325573&xg_source=activity&feed=yes&xn_auth=noIt sounds as though you did l…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2018-08-10:2054931:Comment:3255732018-08-10T03:32:04.795Zbluebirdhttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/Kristina68
<p>It sounds as though you did love him, and maybe he loved you in his way, but he did not treat you as a loving partner should, and in my opinion you did the right thing by protecting yourself and not staying with him. I think you should view that last night you spent together as your real goodbye, and not beat yourself up over whatever you said during your last text conversation. If there really is an afterlife, then I think he must understand from his new perspective that after all the…</p>
<p>It sounds as though you did love him, and maybe he loved you in his way, but he did not treat you as a loving partner should, and in my opinion you did the right thing by protecting yourself and not staying with him. I think you should view that last night you spent together as your real goodbye, and not beat yourself up over whatever you said during your last text conversation. If there really is an afterlife, then I think he must understand from his new perspective that after all the difficulties in your relationship, you had to do what was right for you. </p>
<p>Also, you might want to consider therapy, both to help yourself through your grieving and also to help figure out why you keep ending up in abusive relationships and how to stop that pattern.</p>