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Does anyone else feel abandoned by friends?
evn had frinds cross st in 2012 not speak 2me in 2012
i thrt i did thngs wong i still do
its frinds it do not get loss coz thy not had loss
do not get it
if its frinds its had a loss
it go way wen u need themm im stuckk coz i do not no to say
all i ni i no in 2012 i soon lenr abot frinds evn famly whoo real 1s wz i did
sorryy if imsayin wong thngs
or spelin got not mushh fealin in fingrs co of a/t in fingrss
r/ta/ in fingrs
u need fridss it get u it tim lk now u do
sorry i do not no u
all i no i wud not treet pepele way pelel tret me wen died thy way did me thn multi loss on stopp puss lot of othr probs 2
pluss i wud not domit it 2 u i wud not 2 no 1 i wud not
sorry on yore loss 2
Elynn, I feel abandoned by everything and everybody. Period. Even with the people who try to console me. Its just not enough. I cant seem to feel that this life is worth living for any length of time. I go in and out of feeling abandonment but mainly I am tired of fighting to try and live with the pain. I keep hitting rough patches and I am in another one again after having a few weeks where I might have meltdowns but not the complete and total feeling of being without him. I was driving down the highway this afternoon and I looked over at a car next to me and there was a man sitting there and thats all its took for me to think that i will never see my husband again. Never. He's dead. I will never ever see him again. Never touch him or talk with him. He's gone, forever. It's too much to handle.
I just don't want to keep trying to live. I think I am turning a corner. I think I am going to start planning to die. I know I have a few things I have to do even if I was still trying to live (they are sort of the same) but I cant keep suffering his loss and feel its what I have to do. I don't have to keep trying to live around the loss. I can plan how I might be able to die quietly and peacefully. I have begun to think it is not such a horrible thing to leave this miserable world behind. I hate whats happening in the government, I hate having to keep trying to make enough money to pay bills, I don't have any real love even from the people who claim they love me. Its not the kind of "love" I understand as real. They care but its not love.
I just don't want to continue to think I am looking at years of living without him. He's gone. Why do I have to pretend that this life is somehow worth maintaining without him? I am even saddened that I still come here and have to say how hard this life without my husband is. I am beginning to wonder why this just continues. Why must I feel like I am struggling most of the time and then have to pretend to others that I am not? I'm tired of the pretense. I just don't see any purpose in continuing to suffer living without him. Its not pessimism, its minimizing further injury. The realization that this is it.........its time to really talk about the worth of keeping going. What would I really be giving up?
all i no u soon lern ab
all i no all i no is u soon leann abot famlyy frinds it tims u need thm u do u do
frindss u thrtt wz frindss cross st to avoidd u
famllyy ingnorin u lk u hav a deddlyy deaseiss
not so long go i spook to sum 1 elsess she had simlerr probss 2 famlyy turnin agasint her en frindss