DR. diagnosed me with compound grief, said its gonna be a tough road for me to heal because of my lack of support ,Some of you are so very blessed to have family and friends to help you through this process , going at this alone is the hardest thing I have ever done and the worst pain I have ever felt. I wish sometimes I had the love and support that a lot you have . Just a hug sometimes can make a huge difference. 

I am grateful for the support many of you have shown me . Thank you ! 

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Dear Niecy,

You are not alone. I am here for you , with you. Many of us have been in this same position where even though we have people physically present around us , yet emotionally and mentally we are alone. You've all my support, concern and friendship. Remember your mom and pray to her for strength and guidance . God bless you Niecy.

Thank you Dia -Ayesha , I know you are having a hard time  with so much as well... I am grateful for your friendship and support. I do pray daily for strength and guidance. I know it will take time but I am just so uncomfortable and I wish I had someone to put their arms around me and hold me sometimes ...just reassurance that everything is gonna be ok. My body and mind ache from all the sadness . Thank you again for being here for me when you are in pain yourself . I wish I could make all of it go away.  

me 2 i wish my dad wz still hear it leeast i wdut get told get over it its easy wish rely pisss me off sory fr p wrd 

my dad wud nevr say ths 2 any 1 he wudnt he wud let peple grive in thr own spase npt forset grief lk me mum got 

i no lst yr he died a few mre died but ths yr i lots a lot mre frm famly 2 frinds 2 nboz wish i dnt thng cud hapen 

i no i wory if im rantng or sayng wong thngs 2 mush i do

jo

Is there a grief support group near you?  Just know we are here for you. I wish I could help.

no thrs no suport grps wear i am a lot of thm got cut 2 sea a consler ths a long waitng list

aftr my dad died in 2012 i dnt thng i cud loze mre peple after him 

all i no grief hrts 2 mush 1s it says it dont hrt hav never lost any 1

bst thng i did wz find ths websitee i did i dnt no wot we wud do wit outt intrnet

jo

I feel all alone too. I have a few family members but we have never been close so I may as well be alone. My husband is gone 14 hours or more a day working and comes home stressed out. I lost my mother 11 months ago and I am not feeling any better about it. We were very close. I hope that we can find our way through the pain because I am hating it. I miss her so much it is unbearable at times. She left me in charge of everything. I am in a tough spot. I'm going to start selling things this year I guess to keep things going. I'm starting with my stuff first. Who cares I never seem to use most of it anyway. If want to chat I am hear to listen. Let me know if you try a group support in person. So far this is all I have done. I'm not sure hearing peoples stories in person would work for me.

And it's hard to go it alone, and having to sell things that belonged to my mom was really hard. I couldn't go to the estate sale, and I too had to handle so many things. I  am here to chat, listen and respond in any way I can. The grief support group I joined for just 6 weeks was handled through a church and very well done. It was healing for me, but wouldn't be for everyone.

     well I kind of know the feelings ,, like you said just a hug does sometimes make a big difference.. all of our friends have just gone back to their lives..i don't even get phone calls from them,, I am so lonely all the time,, even with my daughter here to help me,,

I am so glad you connected with us here. Yes, loneliness is present, folks get back to other things, and the very challenging journey of working through grief continues for you. For me, having a pet was a help. A grief support network through the church helped, but it was only a lot of time that had to pass for me to make the inner adjustments I needed to make. Keep in touch.

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