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I am so sorry for your loss. This site has been such an amazing source of support for me. You have so much to deal with. You will find great friendships on this site. Sue
I left everything 6 years ago. I'm living in my best friends house. It's very difficult coming home and not having her here. I totally understand and appreciate that. Your kids have to be comfortable where-ever they live. If it means a completely new place to build new memories, without Dad's shadow, then so be it. Talk to your oldest and see what's going and how they feel.
Good luck to you.
my thoughts and prayers with you... not sure what to say.. wish the pain could go away... never does but you will all get some good moments too.. I do even tho I always end up thinking of my wonderful sister ... do whatever feels right for you.. sometimes beinga way from families places helps to get moving on wth life somehow... i find the unfamiliar helps but sometimes i am drawn to her .. go in her room , wear her clothes.. smell her clothes... cant take it for too long but feel the need to be where she lived.. miss her so much my sister was my soulmate... my only bestest friend... hope it gets better...