I Don't Know How I'm Going To Start My Life Without My Mom. - Online Grief Support - A Social Community2024-03-28T12:28:25Zhttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/forum/topics/i-don-t-know-how-i-m-going-to?groupUrl=imissmymom&commentId=2054931%3AComment%3A63135&xg_source=activity&groupId=2054931%3AGroup%3A9351&feed=yes&xn_auth=noI understand how you feel abo…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2011-08-30:2054931:Comment:751672011-08-30T01:02:12.601ZSuzanne Davishttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/SuzanneDavis
I understand how you feel about sleeping pills but remember that you may need them right now. God Bless You. I know that the black hole you feel in your soul is unbearable. Keep coming here to talk. Love, Suzanne
I understand how you feel about sleeping pills but remember that you may need them right now. God Bless You. I know that the black hole you feel in your soul is unbearable. Keep coming here to talk. Love, Suzanne God Bless You and I am sorry…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2011-08-30:2054931:Comment:754182011-08-30T01:00:13.040ZSuzanne Davishttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/SuzanneDavis
<p>God Bless You and I am sorry for your loss. The truth - there is nothing you can do. I still have to take it minute by minute. My doctor had to put me on a sleeping pill and that helped me a lot. I too was very very close to my mom. Just coming here and talking to other people that understand your pain seems to help me. You are in my prayers.</p>
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<p>God Bless You and I am sorry for your loss. The truth - there is nothing you can do. I still have to take it minute by minute. My doctor had to put me on a sleeping pill and that helped me a lot. I too was very very close to my mom. Just coming here and talking to other people that understand your pain seems to help me. You are in my prayers.</p>
<p>Suzanne</p> hi Laura. What helped you to…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2011-08-30:2054931:Comment:753502011-08-30T00:37:05.548ZKevin Velezhttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/KeviinVelez
<p>hi Laura. What helped you to fall asleep? It's been a rough week not being able to fall asleep. I've exercised for an hour, cleaned the apt, drank warm milk, melatonin (a natural sleeping aid). I don't like prescribed sleeping pills since I wake up feeling worst than when I fell asleep. even after a tiring day, my mind was wide awake when I tried to go to bed. </p>
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<p>the insomnia is probably due to my mom's death in June 2011. I am sorry you have had a bad experience with…</p>
<p>hi Laura. What helped you to fall asleep? It's been a rough week not being able to fall asleep. I've exercised for an hour, cleaned the apt, drank warm milk, melatonin (a natural sleeping aid). I don't like prescribed sleeping pills since I wake up feeling worst than when I fell asleep. even after a tiring day, my mind was wide awake when I tried to go to bed. </p>
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<p>the insomnia is probably due to my mom's death in June 2011. I am sorry you have had a bad experience with others not understanding you. I'm also in my 30s and do not find many others the same age that understand since they haven't experienced it - so I close myself off. unfortunately, not talking about it results in other manifestations, such as not sleeping. </p>
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I am the sameway i…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2011-08-17:2054931:Comment:701242011-08-17T06:45:07.923ZCrystal (BluSkyy)http://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/crystal
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<p> I am the sameway i just lost my grandma on August 13th and i feel so lost without her.. I dont know how I am going to move on with my life now.. I cant sleep, I cant eat, it feels like the sky is fallen down on me... </p>
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<p> I am the sameway i just lost my grandma on August 13th and i feel so lost without her.. I dont know how I am going to move on with my life now.. I cant sleep, I cant eat, it feels like the sky is fallen down on me... </p> I can so relate to your comme…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2011-08-16:2054931:Comment:693402011-08-16T00:00:50.338ZLinda McDonnellhttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/LindaMcDonnell
I can so relate to your comment. My family is telling me to be positive and move on but they don't understand. I lived with my mom most of my life. I know she's in a better place as she was suffering. I am suffering without her here and feel guilty about that. I just don't know how to move on. She was my life and now i feel like I don't have one.
I can so relate to your comment. My family is telling me to be positive and move on but they don't understand. I lived with my mom most of my life. I know she's in a better place as she was suffering. I am suffering without her here and feel guilty about that. I just don't know how to move on. She was my life and now i feel like I don't have one. Hi Suzanne; God will give you…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2011-08-15:2054931:Comment:691132011-08-15T17:54:29.195Zmercyhttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/mercy
Hi Suzanne; God will give you a child if that is the desire of your heart. My baby is my life; people say I'm spoiling her but I really don't know how to do things any different. She has never slept in her own room since when I'm home, I don't like being too far from her. Children are such a joy, I cannot understand women who kill their kids, I cry for those babies a lot, I wish they would give them to someone who wants one like you. Before mom died, I wanted to go into nursing (I'm a…
Hi Suzanne; God will give you a child if that is the desire of your heart. My baby is my life; people say I'm spoiling her but I really don't know how to do things any different. She has never slept in her own room since when I'm home, I don't like being too far from her. Children are such a joy, I cannot understand women who kill their kids, I cry for those babies a lot, I wish they would give them to someone who wants one like you. Before mom died, I wanted to go into nursing (I'm a librarian); now I can't see myself in nursing, its so hard for me to even look at pictures of sick people as it just makes me think of my mom in a hospital bed. I know you are in the right field; we need more people like you to be in the field that requires compassion. Thank you Mercy for the kind…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2011-08-14:2054931:Comment:686142011-08-14T00:25:10.203ZSuzanne Davishttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/SuzanneDavis
Thank you Mercy for the kind and wonderful words. I would give anything to have a child, but I do not. I do have a job which makes my situation even harder yet. I am a nurse and I take care of very sick people and yet I had to help my mother die in peace. It would be wonderful to hear the laughter of a child. Thank God you have her - life is worth going on for your child. Love always.
Thank you Mercy for the kind and wonderful words. I would give anything to have a child, but I do not. I do have a job which makes my situation even harder yet. I am a nurse and I take care of very sick people and yet I had to help my mother die in peace. It would be wonderful to hear the laughter of a child. Thank God you have her - life is worth going on for your child. Love always. I am glad it is helping you b…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2011-08-14:2054931:Comment:684402011-08-14T00:20:59.859ZSuzanne Davishttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/SuzanneDavis
<p>I am glad it is helping you because it is helping me too being on this site. "Move on".??</p>
<p>How can we possibly move on. I am frozen in the depths of my grief and suffering that can not possibly be spoken into words. I can not even bear to look at her picture. I understand. I am so sorry that anyone has to suffer the way we have to at this time. I don't feel like I will ever be ok. My life is changed. I will never have another Mother's Day with her,and I spent my 50th birthday…</p>
<p>I am glad it is helping you because it is helping me too being on this site. "Move on".??</p>
<p>How can we possibly move on. I am frozen in the depths of my grief and suffering that can not possibly be spoken into words. I can not even bear to look at her picture. I understand. I am so sorry that anyone has to suffer the way we have to at this time. I don't feel like I will ever be ok. My life is changed. I will never have another Mother's Day with her,and I spent my 50th birthday alone in a ball in bed. I do understand and my heart is with you.</p> Suzanne: I can really relate…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2011-08-13:2054931:Comment:682232011-08-13T01:04:26.767ZLinda McDonnellhttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/LindaMcDonnell
<p>Suzanne: I can really relate to what you are saying. This is my first post. I have a job to go and no one else to support me so I have to get out of the house but wish I could never leave it. My mom lived with me all my life and I feel so lost and alone. My family (siblings) don't understand. They say I am being negative and that I need to move on with my life. I just don't know how to do that. </p>
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<p>I am sorry for what you are going through. I am glad I found this…</p>
<p>Suzanne: I can really relate to what you are saying. This is my first post. I have a job to go and no one else to support me so I have to get out of the house but wish I could never leave it. My mom lived with me all my life and I feel so lost and alone. My family (siblings) don't understand. They say I am being negative and that I need to move on with my life. I just don't know how to do that. </p>
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<p>I am sorry for what you are going through. I am glad I found this group.</p> Suzanne; I hate that you too…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2011-08-09:2054931:Comment:666232011-08-09T16:17:43.691Zmercyhttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/mercy
<p>Suzanne; I hate that you too are going through this hell. I think my job and daughter are my saving grace otherwise I would be housebound. I work full time and have a 21 month old baby girl, she needs to eat and do activities everyday so I'm forced to pull myself together and do these things for her. I'm also constantly on the move, shopping, cleaning, etc. Do you have a job? I think it can be a good distraction. I hope you find something that will occupy your time since I totally understand…</p>
<p>Suzanne; I hate that you too are going through this hell. I think my job and daughter are my saving grace otherwise I would be housebound. I work full time and have a 21 month old baby girl, she needs to eat and do activities everyday so I'm forced to pull myself together and do these things for her. I'm also constantly on the move, shopping, cleaning, etc. Do you have a job? I think it can be a good distraction. I hope you find something that will occupy your time since I totally understand that grief can be debilitating. You may even try and volunteer at shelters or foodbanks. Please just do something to distract yourself even if just for a few minutes. Sometimes I play with my daughter through the tears, and I work through tears often but I think its better than being in bed. I'll be thinking about you dear and please take care of yourself.</p>
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