HEARING HER VOICE AGAIN THRIUGH VOICEMAIL - Online Grief Support - A Social Community2024-03-29T06:39:46Zhttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/forum/topics/hearing-her-voice-again-thriugh-voicemail?xg_source=activity&feed=yes&xn_auth=noI have kept a voicemail messa…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2017-07-17:2054931:Comment:3092172017-07-17T00:04:07.700Zbluebirdhttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/Kristina68
<p>I have kept a voicemail message from my husband, too. I never actually noticed it on my phone until sometime after he died, so I don't know when he left it and I don't recall him ever asking if I got his voicemail. Anyway, I treasure it, and I have saved it on my phone, on my computer, and on an external hard-drive. Among other things, in the voicemail he tells me how much he loves me, and so I will always keep that voicemail. Yes, it's hard to listen to, but I will <em>always</em> want…</p>
<p>I have kept a voicemail message from my husband, too. I never actually noticed it on my phone until sometime after he died, so I don't know when he left it and I don't recall him ever asking if I got his voicemail. Anyway, I treasure it, and I have saved it on my phone, on my computer, and on an external hard-drive. Among other things, in the voicemail he tells me how much he loves me, and so I will always keep that voicemail. Yes, it's hard to listen to, but I will <em>always</em> want to hear his voice. </p> It's strange how we respond t…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2017-07-11:2054931:Comment:3091352017-07-11T04:00:15.357ZM Adamshttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/MAdams
It's strange how we respond to bereavement -- I wanted to preserve the last telephone message my husband left on our machine, and had talked to a friend about how best to transfer it to something permanent, but then a power outage occurred and I discovered that outage wiped out all the messages. So now I have no way to hear him speak, except perhaps in a dream. It was painful to listen to the message but at the same time I treasured it. He had a beautiful voice. I guess we keep feeling loss in…
It's strange how we respond to bereavement -- I wanted to preserve the last telephone message my husband left on our machine, and had talked to a friend about how best to transfer it to something permanent, but then a power outage occurred and I discovered that outage wiped out all the messages. So now I have no way to hear him speak, except perhaps in a dream. It was painful to listen to the message but at the same time I treasured it. He had a beautiful voice. I guess we keep feeling loss in new ways. I do still have some newspapers that he had filled out the crosssword in because I like to see his printing in the grids, even though seeing them makes me tear up. Hi Morgan,
My grief will neve…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2017-07-10:2054931:Comment:3089212017-07-10T20:49:59.331ZLinda Engberghttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/LindaEngberg
<p>Hi Morgan,</p>
<p>My grief will never end until I am dead </p>
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<p>Hi Morgan,</p>
<p>My grief will never end until I am dead </p>
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<p></p> Hi Richard,
I lost my Husband…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2017-07-10:2054931:Comment:3091272017-07-10T20:47:47.559ZLinda Engberghttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/LindaEngberg
<p>Hi Richard,</p>
<p>I lost my Husband 4 years ago, but I keep his voicemail message because that's all I have left of him.</p>
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<p>Hi Richard,</p>
<p>I lost my Husband 4 years ago, but I keep his voicemail message because that's all I have left of him.</p>
<p> </p> Wow, I have a hard time readi…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2017-07-10:2054931:Comment:3090252017-07-10T20:32:26.688ZHelenBhttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/Helen28
Wow, I have a hard time reading old emails & texts. That must be hard.
Wow, I have a hard time reading old emails & texts. That must be hard. I do appreciate your words. i…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2017-07-07:2054931:Comment:3087212017-07-07T12:26:30.668ZRichard Riverahttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/RichardRivera
I do appreciate your words. it's just so odd to here the voice of someone you love deeply and who is no longer with me. I don't know what to do except lay in bed in misery. I had to take off of work I just couldn't go in. Each day I get weaker. I'm laying down as I type this. God please end this suffering. I just want my wife back.
I do appreciate your words. it's just so odd to here the voice of someone you love deeply and who is no longer with me. I don't know what to do except lay in bed in misery. I had to take off of work I just couldn't go in. Each day I get weaker. I'm laying down as I type this. God please end this suffering. I just want my wife back. Richard,
I really can't be of…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2017-07-07:2054931:Comment:3086212017-07-07T03:01:01.881Zmorganhttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/mmorgan
Richard,<br />
I really can't be of much help. I've dug myself back into my own hole again and as long as I've been alive since my husband's death, I can only try to manage the days even hours at a time. And I don't have nearly the health problems that you do. I'm so sorry it's been so miserable for you. I wish it was any other way, because this is been a Marathon of grief for me and unfortunately for many of us it just doesn't seem to stop. Again, just writing because I want to say I'm so sorry.…
Richard,<br />
I really can't be of much help. I've dug myself back into my own hole again and as long as I've been alive since my husband's death, I can only try to manage the days even hours at a time. And I don't have nearly the health problems that you do. I'm so sorry it's been so miserable for you. I wish it was any other way, because this is been a Marathon of grief for me and unfortunately for many of us it just doesn't seem to stop. Again, just writing because I want to say I'm so sorry. Sorry that the loves of our lives are somewhere we can't attach to them. It's just awful.