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My grief will never end until I am dead
I lost my Husband 4 years ago, but I keep his voicemail message because that's all I have left of him.
I have kept a voicemail message from my husband, too. I never actually noticed it on my phone until sometime after he died, so I don't know when he left it and I don't recall him ever asking if I got his voicemail. Anyway, I treasure it, and I have saved it on my phone, on my computer, and on an external hard-drive. Among other things, in the voicemail he tells me how much he loves me, and so I will always keep that voicemail. Yes, it's hard to listen to, but I will always want to hear his voice.